"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So she broke up with her bf and today she came over

bfl

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Well the girl that ive been talking about for the past couple of weeks finally broke up with her bf:D :) :cool: that happened like a week ago although she just told me today when she came over.
I kinda sense that something wasnt right when she started acting and gettin more caring about me by calling me saying what im doing later etc since like a week now.. wich she never did before, but anyways.
Today she came over for the first time and we had some quality time together, we talked about getting in a RL with each other but she said that she is scare that she will get hurt again, i tried my hardest in letting her know tha i wasnt gonna hurt her and i did good i believe.

Enough said that i ended up making out with her and sucking her titties:D although it took me quite a bit to convince her to do so, my main goal was to get laid but she said that she dont wanna rush things since she just broke up with her bf, she still is gonna get with me but just not yet, and ok with that though cause i understand that.

she seemed scare though while we was at it, while i was kissing he neck and ears she said as if she was talking to herself "im not doing nothing wrong, i dont have a boyfriend" i didnt reply and kept doing my thing but then she repeated and i said "yeah yeah" whispering and we went at it.

What do yall think about this situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you are only trying to get laid right?

she is trying to be pampered and used you as a rebound

but don't fall for her trip, just get laid :D
 

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^^^ Oh believe me we talked about that too, i told her straight up as a matterfact, i was like, " you just trynma use me as a rebound" but she denied it and i kinda believe her cause she aint like your average girl she is a christian... but then u neve know.
 

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Originally posted by bfl
[Bi kinda believe her cause she aint like your average girl she is a christian...[/B]

ROFL
Every girl you like isn't your average girl. Time to get that head out of your arse.
At least you realise you could be wrong.
 
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