So say you have a lesbian for a Wingwoman...

[Tyson420]

Does she have to be good looking?

Same for wingmen buddies too. Do they have to be good looking, is it bad if they're ugly?

I have a lesbian friend, she's a really nice girl, she's not exactly a HB7. But what kills me sometimes that she gets girls that are atleast HB9s. Shocklingly enough. (Maybe looks don't matter between girls?) Like I'm bewildered sometimes. She has little to no skill on how to deal with relationships, (she cries after every break up). If a guy had her personality he'd be AFC to the max. She's not really les but a Bi, but I always saw her as one of the guys because she's as tough as the boys.

So does it matter?

 

[Mike32ct]

I have no experience with les/bi, so I'll defer to the others.

But for wingmen, if you must go there, find one of comparable looks. If he is better looking than you, he'll get the lion's share of the attention. If he is much less than you in the looks department, it lowers the value of your group and you by association.

 

[r0cky]

It doesn't really matter if your wingman is good looking. His job is to take care of the other girl, if he can do a good job at distracting the other girl for at least 5- 10 minutes then he's a good wingman. His looks shoudn't affect your game unless your trying to have a threesome.

 

[Mike32ct]

I understand what you are saying Rocky. In theory, yes, the wingman is just there to occupy the other girl.

But, make no mistake, the girls are comparing both of you. Unless your game is super tight, you will have a hard time with a much better looking wingman. Both girls' eyes will be on him while you are talking.

Even when you both approach the two women, your typical AWs are thinking, "Are these guys good (cute) enough to talk to us?". In other words, they are evaluating the looks of both of you. In such case, an ugly wingman could be a liability and serve to increase the b@tch shields. Women are less interested in "taking one for the team" than men.