I think at least a few of us want to know. A lot of the things you've written have helped put me on the right path and I remember you talking about writing a book/getting published. That was a while back. Any updates?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So Rollo .. how's that book comin?
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I've actually been wondering this as well. I've been looking for some type of update/post about it. Posts have added insight to my life as well and I would love to have a book
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How you uh, how you comin' on that novel you're working on? Huh? Got a a big, uh, big stack of papers there? Got a, got a nice litte story you're working on there? Your big novel you've been working on for three years? Huh? Got a, got a compelling protagonist? Yeah? Got a obstacle for him to overcome? Huh? Got a story brewing there? Working on, working on that for quite some time? Huh? Yeah, talking about that three years ago. Been working on that the whole time? Nice little narrative? Beginning, middle, and end? Some friends become enemies, some enemies become friends? At the end your main character is richer from the experience? Yeah? Yeah? No, no, you deserve some time off.
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Thank God for Stewie Griffin.Jerry Maguire said:
Rollo Tomassi
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Honestly, I've had the 3rd edit of it done and have 2 interested parties that would probably publish it for about 4 months now, but I've been dealing with an ownership change at work and an ailing father who has Alzheimers, and all of the intricacies of dealing with assisted living situations for him.
I'll be applying more effort to the final of it in 2008, but when you don't write for a liviing sometimes life has to take priority.
I'll be applying more effort to the final of it in 2008, but when you don't write for a liviing sometimes life has to take priority.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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damnit! everyones beating me to these!Jerry Maguire said:
first the "Madness? THIS IS SPARTA!"... now my favorite line in family guy!!!