Forbidden Love
Don Juan
One of my friends, a girl told me to cut in when she's dancing with her boyfriend. How should I do that? Help!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So prom is tonight... *one specific question*
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Forbidden Love
Don Juan
No, and sort of. Don't really know him that well. I know the girl really well tho. And she came up with this idea...
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Why would she want you to do that?
Forbidden Love
Don Juan
*shrugs*
She says she wants to dance with other ppl, while seeing if she could make her bf jealous. It's her senior prom, while this is my junior one.
She says she wants to dance with other ppl, while seeing if she could make her bf jealous. It's her senior prom, while this is my junior one.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Don't do it. She's using you. Tell her if she wants to dance with you, to come and dance with you. You almost got tooled man!
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unless that dance will end in you ****ing her, I'd say don't do it...