"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So picking girls is this easy?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you believe it is?
 

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YES it really is that easy. I've gotten numbers in under a minute a few times too. But the flake rate is high because when you finally text/call she won't have anything to remember you by. Its like meeting her for the first time AGAIN but over text/call.

Its like:

"Hey, I'm that random guy you met on the street. Wanna meet up?"

Generally.. the less work you put into the pick-up the more game you need for the first text/call. If your pick-up blows her away.. you can relax more on the first contact because you won't be as much a "stranger".
 

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Can be. But just because you "pick her up" doesn't mean your going to ever see her again.
 

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From the title of the vid to the content...people want their YouTube ṣhit to go viral and be world famous so bad, they'll put anything up there.

Smells like be-oh-all-ṣhit!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yeah i think it is that easy if you are a tall non threatening white guy like that

still though, i like his direct and casual approach
 

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Yes, assuming the video was not staged, it was that easy for that particular guy to get a phone number from that particular girl at that particular time. Your mileage may vary. Also, keep in mind that getting a phone number from a random broad in a ransom setting does not mean anything. You are only about 1% of the way into her pants at that stage.
 

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She was already starting to have second thoughts when she started telling him her number. Her eyes stopped smiling (only her mouth) and she prefaced it with "allright...801..."

He started giving off a douche vibe with the "You don't know who I am?" routine.
 
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