"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So, Once Again a Female Retail Employee Fails to Ring Up 1 of my Items

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She gave threw it in the bag without ringing it up, gave me a look and I smiled. Going into this purchase I was in a very quiet non-pick-up mood. She was hot but I noticed a rainbow belt, so I figured she was gay.

I said "The last person that did that for me. . I got their number" and she laughed and said "Well you don't get mine. . . . I have a boyfriend"

I just smiled and said thank you very much, the last girl that did that for me was 19 (I'm 17) and things turned out great the two times we hung out (all available in my threads of the past), then I ended up finding out I was just a flesh dildo. :yes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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cool man
 

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Pickup has that unintended consequence of making people cool and more social. I get discounts, freebies, and comped bennies all the time just from being social with staff, whether it be at a bar, Macy's, Autozone, etc. It's amazing how easy it is to talk to people. Just lead the conversation and be nice. It stuns me to this day how few people are really like this. You'd think everyone would say it, but they dont. Something as simple as "Busy day, eh?" and they usually light up and start talking.
 

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Nutz said:
Pickup has that unintended consequence of making people cool and more social. I get discounts, freebies, and comped bennies all the time just from being social with staff, whether it be at a bar, Macy's, Autozone, etc. It's amazing how easy it is to talk to people. Just lead the conversation and be nice. It stuns me to this day how few people are really like this. You'd think everyone would say it, but they dont. Something as simple as "Busy day, eh?" and they usually light up and start talking.
To overcome my extreme shyness since the summer i've been starting conversations with people. Stores that i go to are alot of times never packed or even have long lines so cashiers/employees (mostly female) just stand there bored out of their minds.
Most of the time when i've talked to people they're all ears with a big smile on their face, they wanted to be pulled away from their dull environment.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All I get is hoodrats and trashy chics giving me free fries all the time. Well, not any more, no more fat food...I mean fast food for me.

But seriously, having convos with people on a regular basis will get you so much. So many customer service people have to deal with attitudes and complaints all day they love to see someone who is pleasant and actually interested in them, they will bend over backwards for you.
 

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Man I love it when I go out open a group of guys (yeah I said) and get a free shot 5 mintues later, There's been nights where I've drank for free the whole nights, enoyed free limo rights, VIP, you name it

good times
 

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Phenomenal One said:
To overcome my extreme shyness since the summer i've been starting conversations with people. Stores that i go to are alot of times never packed or even have long lines so cashiers/employees (mostly female) just stand there bored out of their minds.
Most of the time when i've talked to people they're all ears with a big smile on their face, they wanted to be pulled away from their dull environment.
Looks like you shrugged off the 'ol stinkin' thinkin'. Good job.
 

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Something as simple as "Busy day, eh?" and they usually light up and start talking.
I used this and got a number! it can be really easy, most staff just want some human conversation, obviously they're sick n tired of bull **** complaints and ignorant arragont customers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nutz said:
Pickup has that unintended consequence of making people cool and more social. I get discounts, freebies, and comped bennies all the time just from being social with staff, whether it be at a bar, Macy's, Autozone, etc. It's amazing how easy it is to talk to people. Just lead the conversation and be nice
I agree with what you said, but isn't it ironic that pickup leads you to "be nice". When one of the first things they tell you is not to be the "nice guy". Things come full circle, I guess.
 

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Noone tells you not to be nice, they tell you not be someone girls think of as a 'nice guy.' There's a BIG difference.
 
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