Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So now Im not going...

Mbuckets82

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She tells me today, I want to see you but I feel weird about it. I’m sorry. Translation: Don’t come.

i saw it coming. She got more distant the closer the trip got, to the point i noticed not contacting me at all. I’ll lose money on the rental car but I deserve that.

Before all this I felt like we connected, similar circumstances, she’d tell me the love I have for my kids is special, she said she adored me, sent me cards telling me how great I am, God sent me into her life, I’m her person.

Problem is I believed all that. I gotta talk to more women. This is BS.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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