"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So my relationship with my best friend is broken cause of a woman.

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Well yall remember the woman that i was supposed to go out with etc...im my other thread well yes cause of her.

See my best friend use to reaaaaaaaallllyyy like her but at the time she had a bf, and she didnt even knew that he liked her until recently, so it seems like they had a big argument but this is what happen.

I started liking her once i saw her, i told my friend about it, and he said that he had no problem with that, but still i didnt try anything, its just now that i recently started making moves on her.

So she called me one day and she told me that my friend had told her that i had a gf, and that all i wanted to do is to fuk her, so i guess that my friend was ****blocking me and telling her all this to make sure i dont get her, so once she told me that, i told her a lot of stuff that he be saying about her, how he is just using her for money and some more stuff, i told her out of anger, cause of what he told her about me. Now he and her aint talkin no more and hate each other cause of what i told her about him, i feel kinda guilty but at the same time he messed me up too.

So i asked him why he told her that and he said that he never said anything and that she is lying, i didnt make no big deal cause that is my best friend and i aint gonna put a ho over a friend, but it seems like he took it personal, but it seems like he didnt like the fact that i confronted him about it. That same day we went to the mall along with one more friend and he was very quiet thru the day, when we dropped my best friend home, he got out the car without saying a word and till this day we havent spoke yet, its been a week and change.


So basicly cause of this girl, now me and my exbest friend aint talking to each other, but then again my friend lies to much, about everything, and the girl got no reason to lie to me about what he said, i believe he did say it cause he had a big crush on her.

but man....ain this some ish...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i dont think she necesarly played us cause my friend did say those things about me, and he did say a lotta sh1t about her , he deserves to have her hating him, basicly it was his big mouth and jealous self that made all this happen, why did he have to tell her "oh he just wanna fuk" "oh he got a gf" and why did he have to use her like that.

ITs him man its him.... i let it go when i found out the things he told her about me all i did was ask him in a calm mode and that was it, i aint get mad at the man, he the one mad cause i asked him about it, he just so immature, childish, and not responsable, he is also a lier (anybody that knows him will tell u that) so thats why i dont feel that bad, he deserves it.

He got no reason to be mad at me, me and her got all the right to be mad at him, but im not, only she is, and i understand why, i know that has to hurt.
 
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That freaking blows dude, I feel for you. It wasn't your card to play, though, man. He turned on you, and not the other way around. I don't know about the retalition on your part, but anyway, if this is your 'best' friend, maybe you can find one better.

It'll blow over eventually anyway.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nah nah nah those the ones on that thread are different ones by the way one of them did know one of the girls.

Now back to this thread :

I mean i dont feel that bad i just feel like its fuked up that he did all the damage with a purpose and then when all his sh1t gets aired out and gets caught he decides to act likethat with me....its all good though, like i said he deserves it.
 
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ya he brought that sh!t on himself. don't make peace with his ass unless he apologizes first, and even then think twice.
 
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