"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so my girlfriend was checking out my friends package during practice

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well during wrestling practice my girlfriend was busy checking out my friends package because he was in compression shorts, she kept doin it and i was gettin a little annoyed and she was flirting with him a little. i'm pretty sure she could tell i was gettin annoyed because of how i was being with her, it wasn't anything hardcore, but should i let her know that i'm gettin mad or play it off. also the bad thing is she talks to him more maybe even a lot more than i talk to her on the phone and it kind of feels like were getting distant. maybe i'm just being paranoid, but anyways should i worry about the checking out part and the talking part because i can kind of talk for a while but not really long on the phone? and should i let her know i'm getting annoyed? and if u guys don't think this realationship should i even keep on going i atleast want to go until i get some? u guys are the pros.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KARMIC LAW #37 - The best revenge you can have on a man who
(insert expletive here) your woman is to let him have her.
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If you can't trust either of them what good are they to your development as a man? Broom them aside and move on.
 
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I speak from personal experience. I used to be that other guy on the phone talking to people's girlfriends. I'm not proud of it, and I regret doing so.

Most of the time when a girl that's taken spends that much time talking to another guy on the phone and flirting with him, she is attention whoring/seeking someone else since she knows she already has you.

How long have you been with this girl? She sounds like a ***** who does not share the same amount of interest in you as you do in her.

My suggestion? Stop calling her and initiating phone calls.. When she does call you, always be the one to end the phone call. Flirt with other girls and have a great time! You'll get over her fast when you have other girls in line anyways. If she calls you out on flirting with other girls or being on the phone with other girls, tell her she does it... So you thought it was okay...

Good luck!
 
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Nice post Chap!
 
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