So my girlfriend lied to me about seeing her ex

[Shivastorm_88]

Real quick background: They have been exes for about ten years, but remained friends (they were friends from highschool before dating). He lives in another city, about three hours from here, but he is visiting for the weekend. Her and I also had a pretty big fight yesterday, and we sort of put everything in perspective between us, y'know, the big questions such as "is this really going to work in the long-term?"

She told me was having brunch with a female friend, but turns out it's with him. I know she won't physically cheat on me (mainly, she just got her period), so that's a start. However, I am deeply annoyed that she lied to me about it.

Food for thought?

 

[Willard]

I feel bad for you. If it was me I would dump her as soon as possible, no explanation, I would text her "I don't want to see you anymore" then no contact forever. She lied to you. Then if you want her back in a month or so, take her back and say don't ever lie to me again, better yet find one that doesn't lie to you. Good luck

 

[IBreatheSpears]

I know she won't physically cheat on me [because] she just got her period

My ex would never have sex with me when she was on her period (which is fine by me, I've blooded my blade before and it wasn't really worth it). A few weeks after we broke up she fúcked some dude while on her period. Although she did stop him halfway through and she claims he was pushy. Point is, girls will say things like "I don't have sex on my period" but get them horny enough and all those barriers just disappear.

 

[Albatross953]

Dump immediately. Ten years and she still carries a torch. Promise you she does. Compound this with the lie.

 

[VikingKing]

Honestly it doesn't matter if she physically cheated or not. Maybe she did, maybe not.

The redflag here is she lied about seeing her ex, blatantly.

Plus she knows, that you know that she lied. If you stay with here, you might as well say "you can lie to me, and I will stay with you."

When give a mouse a cookie, they will want a glass of milk, then they want a sandwich...

If you do stay with her, she will probably go into good behavior mode. But then its going to get worse, and worse.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Sounds dodgy. If she lied about the meeting, she could lie about him not riding the crimson tide. At the end of the day, a lie is really someone deciding that what they want is more important than what you want, and that's where the disrespect lies.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Honestly it doesn't matter if she physically cheated or not. Maybe she did, maybe not.

The redflag here is she lied about seeing her ex, blatantly.

Plus she knows, that you know that she lied. If you stay with here, you might as well say "you can lie to me, and I will stay with you."

When give a mouse a cookie, they will want a glass of milk, then they want a sandwich...

If you do stay with her, she will probably go into good behavior mode. But then its going to get worse, and worse.

Please, for the sake of humanity, listen to this Guy. Please.

 

[GotED?]

When give a mouse a cookie, they will want a glass of milk, then they want a sandwich...

Damn, I been OUTGAMED by Noobolgy

That some smart sh!t Einstein logic and theory there!

I won't be able to sleep tonight pondering on how that all is interconnected with the Universe.

I am voting Noobolgy for President

A country where no more Skinny Guys and Dhoulmagus clones complain about racial injustice in gaming whitey women, just feeding a cookie to a mouse and see the Butterfly Effect to keep them busy.

 

[IndeedSir]

It's bad enough when you're not sure if you can trust a woman but she hasn't given you enough information to know. How the fu ck you could stay with a chick you know is a liar and at the very least emotionally cheating on you, I do not understand. I would tell her you want a break. She can go fu ck her ex, you can go fu ck some people, then if she comes back you can decide if a lying ho is your princess still.

 

[Robert28]

They've been exes for TEN years and still remain good enough "friends" to where they meet up and do sh!t together whenever he's in town? Um, yeah, split from this girl and do it yesterday. That's just odd between those two.

 

[VikingKing]

Damn, I been OUTGAMED by Noobolgy

That some smart sh!t Einstein logic and theory there!

I won't be able to sleep tonight pondering on how that all is interconnected with the Universe.

I am voting Noobolgy for President

A country where no more Skinny Guys and Dhoulmagus clones complain about racial injustice in gaming whitey women, just feeding a cookie to a mouse and see the Butterfly Effect to keep them busy.

I should be made the emperor.

 

[JoeMarron]

You know you're in a sad situation when the only reason you have to believe that your gf won't cheat on you is because she's on her period. Come on now, you know damn well you know exactly what to do in this situation.

 

[Turuwal]

Honestly it doesn't matter if she physically cheated or not. Maybe she did, maybe not.

The redflag here is she lied about seeing her ex, blatantly.

Plus she knows, that you know that she lied. If you stay with here, you might as well say "you can lie to me, and I will stay with you."

When give a mouse a cookie, they will want a glass of milk, then they want a sandwich...

If you do stay with her, she will probably go into good behavior mode. But then its going to get worse, and worse.

Yep, agree totally. This is grounds for demotion to FB and sex toy while you find someone more deserving.