"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So... My girlfriend is seeing a radical feminist psychologist -_-

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She recently lost her father, and she decided she needed someone to talk to, to sort things out, which in itself I find nothing wrong with. However, what started as an innocent visit to rationalize her feeling of loss became a crusade by her psychologist, who is a bloody radical feminist.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a chauvinist male, or a misogynist; I believe in equality of sexes in the sense that both men and women have their evolutionary traits that are translated into specific strengths and weaknesses, and into specific characteristics. However, she on the other hand, is a chauvinist female.

Right now, my girlfriend is laughing it off, saying she doesn't believe any of that bullcrap. She does, however, appreciate other aspects of her visits, as she is very good at helping her with her feeling of loss. Hence, she doesn't want to stop seeing her. Problem is, she is at a somewhat vulnerable state of mind, so I'm sure she's going to be more impressionable, and I'm kind of worried that the shrink will corrupt her way of thinking.

What would you guys do in my situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SamTheHobit

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Idk man. Maybe you can use this as a test of her character.
 
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If she values you more, she probably won't want to lose you and won't apt feminist views that will chase you away. Just stick to your values and self belief and don't change for her or succumb to her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Greasy Pig

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^^^ Beat me too it. Classic Jophil.
 
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