"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so my first day didnt go as planned

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kevin1198

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out of all my classes, their are only 3 girls i'd consider approachable.
(just 7s not a good 9 weeks)
now around lunch, theirs plenty for the picking. but i dont have much confidence and social skills to get the job done when it comes to sitting down at a table and talking to a couple of them. i need to practice, but i feel more comftorable in a classroom than out and about in say the library or cafeteria where there's always groups.

whats the best way to tackle this situation?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pjtheman

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take the plunge my friend and force yourself to approach, get out and do it. It's like kino, you gotta do it get better at it
 
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Eugene123

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Go approach honestly, whats the worst that can happen. the girl gets pissed off at you slaps you, and if your really unlucky you get spit in the face. SO WHAT!

If u have ever tried learning how to ride a bicicle, you have probably fallen down and scrapped your self, but you just kept on going. Learning how to pick up is like that, you fall down but keep on going.

Don't let getting scraped scare you in any way, u'll soon be good and won't get any scrapes.

look at the long term not the short term, and u'll be happy.

any approach is good dosn't matter i fhte girl is a 7/8/9 whatever, more practice you get the better you will become
 
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search1ng

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Just go at it with the mindset that you want to have fun. Who cares what the result is, you're just having some fun talking to some HUMAN BEINGS.
 
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Conquer

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Hear me out:
1st- Things will never go as planned, which is why you must be ready for anything.
2nd- Schedules are not permanent until a week or 2 later.
3rd- Constantly thinking about it does not help the situation.
4th- Time to join clubs or play a sport.
5th- Remember that even unattractive women are worth talking to because it can help prepare you for talking to actually attractive women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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eaglez1177

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Heres a lesson: things in life NEVER go as planned.
 
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