"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so my first day didnt go as planned

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kevin1198

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out of all my classes, their are only 3 girls i'd consider approachable.
(just 7s not a good 9 weeks)
now around lunch, theirs plenty for the picking. but i dont have much confidence and social skills to get the job done when it comes to sitting down at a table and talking to a couple of them. i need to practice, but i feel more comftorable in a classroom than out and about in say the library or cafeteria where there's always groups.

whats the best way to tackle this situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pjtheman

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take the plunge my friend and force yourself to approach, get out and do it. It's like kino, you gotta do it get better at it
 
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Eugene123

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Go approach honestly, whats the worst that can happen. the girl gets pissed off at you slaps you, and if your really unlucky you get spit in the face. SO WHAT!

If u have ever tried learning how to ride a bicicle, you have probably fallen down and scrapped your self, but you just kept on going. Learning how to pick up is like that, you fall down but keep on going.

Don't let getting scraped scare you in any way, u'll soon be good and won't get any scrapes.

look at the long term not the short term, and u'll be happy.

any approach is good dosn't matter i fhte girl is a 7/8/9 whatever, more practice you get the better you will become
 
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search1ng

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Just go at it with the mindset that you want to have fun. Who cares what the result is, you're just having some fun talking to some HUMAN BEINGS.
 
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Hear me out:
1st- Things will never go as planned, which is why you must be ready for anything.
2nd- Schedules are not permanent until a week or 2 later.
3rd- Constantly thinking about it does not help the situation.
4th- Time to join clubs or play a sport.
5th- Remember that even unattractive women are worth talking to because it can help prepare you for talking to actually attractive women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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eaglez1177

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Heres a lesson: things in life NEVER go as planned.
 
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