So my ex hooked up with my roommate... wtf

[foomee]

So I just found out that my ex of over a year hooked up with my suitemate two weeks ago. My suite consists of six guys that share one bathroom, and he lives in the room across from my bathroom. So he made a list of all the girls he's hooked up with and what schools they went to. He's up to 35 girls. When he was gone I looked in his notebook and found the list. My ex was on there. I got so much adrenaline and I just got so mad. I drove around for like an hour pissed off. So I call her, ask to talk to her, and we talk outside for a few minutes. She tells me she was drunk and blah blah blah, he likes to hook up with drunk girls. But whatever, it takes two to tango. So right now I don't think he knows I know yet, but I'm just seriously pissed off. Anyways I handled her, I've lost all respect for both of them. And I don't know how to handle him. I don't want to confront him till tomorrow or another day, but I just don't know what to do. We broke up only two months ago, and he got with her. I am seriously pissed off. What do you think I should do? I've played it cool all night, but I'm about ready to slit his throat.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Ask him what your fvcking nuttbutter tastes like by-proxy. No amount of Listerine can wash away the taste of your jizz in his mouth when he put his tongue in her throat.

That'll kill him . . .

 

[PersonalJesus]

Dude, what the ****?
Let it go.

Edit: you should be more like him.

 

[foomee]

Ugh. The thing is tho, I'm still new to everything. This girl was my first, and my first girlfriend. I'm only 19, we dated for over a year. This guy has hooked up with tons of other girls, most of them were drunk. I just hope they both get ****ing aids or something.
And I can't sleep. I just wanna go next door and beat his ass.

 

[FUCM]

Dude, you and her are through. What do you care what she does? Do you expect every guy in the fukking world to avoid her for 40 years because you dated her once? Don't be pissed at the guy, all he did was fukk a chick, the same thing you did.

You need to let it go. You're making yourself miserable. Go through his list and fukk every girl on it, then get ahead of him. Or fukk her friends. Or don't fukking worry about it and go on to other women. College is full of them.

FTOW

 

[flows101]

if she's your ex dude why do you even care. The past is the past you cant change it.

 

[MacDiddy]

Dude, you were only 19... Its okay if it happens. question is why haven't you done the dirty too.
Besides, she's your EX... She doesn't give a $hit if you're pissed off.. In fact she's probably happy you know and its eating you inside out....

Your attitude is definitely a step back on your DJ quest as far as I'm concerned..

 

[ConantheLibertarian]

I hate to be the Monday morning quarterback, but you shouldn't have been snooping in other people's business. Least of all the business of those you live with. You need to let it go, what good does it do to let it eat you up? Put a spin on it. He has to get chicks drunk to screw them? Oooh big man. And her, well she got drunk and slept with him. What does that make her? In that perspective, is it even worth fostering such hatred? Bigger matters to spend emotion on than these 2. The best revenge is living well, that needs to be stated here. You're talking about kicking his ass, for what? You had her before he did, take pride. He got your sloppy seconds.

 

[foomee]

I hate to be the Monday morning quarterback, but you shouldn't have been snooping in other people's business. Least of all the business of those you live with. You need to let it go, what good does it do to let it eat you up? Put a spin on it. He has to get chicks drunk to screw them? Oooh big man. And her, well she got drunk and slept with him. What does that make her? In that perspective, is it even worth fostering such hatred? Bigger matters to spend emotion on than these 2. The best revenge is living well, that needs to be stated here. You're talking about kicking his ass, for what? You had her before he did, take pride. He got your sloppy seconds.

Thanks, that's basically what my best friend told me. I've lost so much respect for these two that I don't even care about them anymore. He's a ****ed up person in his own, and she's just a dirty little slut.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

So I just found out that my ex of over a year hooked up with my suitemate two weeks ago...

...We broke up only two months ago, and he got with her. I am seriously pissed off. What do you think I should do? I've played it cool all night, but I'm about ready to slit his throat.

Obviously your EX (notice the bold color) and your flatmate could care less about what effects your life, maybe you should consider the same concerning theirs. At least you now understand their nature.

 

[muscleman]

Thanks, that's basically what my best friend told me. I've lost so much respect for these two that I don't even care about them anymore. He's a ****ed up person in his own, and she's just a dirty little slut.

Like Rollo said, don't get mad cause the gym isn't played by your rules. Get better.

 

[TruthHurts]

I'm about ready to slit his throat.

dont do nothing silly...

Thank him... He showed his and her true colors... Now you know how they are and how much respect they have for you so you should have easy time forgetting about it...

If at any point you want to think or miss any part of the past just think about this painful moment and move on...

 

[foomee]

dont do nothing silly...

Thank him... He showed his and her true colors... Now you know how they are and how much respect they have for you so you should have easy time forgetting about it...

If at any point you want to think or miss any part of the past just think about this painful moment and move on...

Yeah. This event finally helped me completely get over this *****. She's nothing to me now. I'll look back on this and be glad it happened.

 

[TruthHurts]

She's nothing to me now.

Be carefull saying that... Sounds like you going cold turkey without fully understanding...

Realize that you actually may have "loved" this girl and "trusted" your friend....

However, they did not feel the same way about you as you have about them.
Thus, even though your feelings may have been true, it was for the wrong people....

 

[PRMoon]

Since you said suite mate and there are so many people, I'll go ahead and assume you're in college.

Look things like this will happen all the time when you're in college. People are promiscuous and if you're no longer going out with some one, then that person is fair game for ANYBODY. You do not own her and there is definately no contract between you and your dorm mates saying that they can not hook up with people you use to be with. Hell my bunk mate in college hooked up with my ex but I didn't whine or complian. Sure i felt something but there were other girls beating down my door for me so why should i care about one that I had and then moved on?

Relax and enjoy college. If you fret about stupid little things like that you're going to ruin your good time. You're only young once so don't let anything drag you down.

 

[mrRuckus]

What do you think I should do?

Um. Find a new girl?

Get a friend that doesn't make lists of the girls he's slept with?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Get a friend that doesn't make lists of the girls he's slept with?

Easier said than done while in college; hell, look at how many guys keep track in this forum.

 

[comic_relief]

stop being such a b!tch.

My ex-gf hooked up with my really good friends. He told me ashamed, and I started to cheer him on and asked him, "She still tight?"

No complaining or b!tching, she doesn't belong to you and you should just swap "war stories." Thats what I do with my roommate AND my ex-girlfriend.

comic_relief

 

[protienpowder]

ouch