So many signs of no interest but still sleeping with me

[tdotseoul]

So this girl has been showing me so many signs of no interest.

- Using the phone and chatting when we are together
- Taking a long time to text back
- Cancels plans for her friends
- Doesn't talk much and thinks about other things when we are together
- Never initiates conversation
- Etc...

But, she still sleeps with me and after we have sex she cuddles up to me like my gf and holds on to me for a very long time... but the day after sex it's back to her normal self.

What am I?
Have I become the girl of the relationship?
LOL

P.S. but to be clear I don't let these things to phase me, I just go about my business but I'm so confused. I have never met a girl like this before.

Edit-
To be more clear, yes it does phase me. What I meant was that I don't let it look like it is phasing me. I don't text her back as much and I reply real slow, etc... I think this is why she is still sleeping with me.

 

[pinkfl]

So basically...she has her own life and it's keeping you guessing as to what she could possibly be doing?

Sounds like yes, she's learned the game and she's good enough at it to make you second guess yourself. If it didn't phase you, you wouldn't question it.

 

[mr. kennedy]

She despises your personality but you have good bedroom game and you are her booty call. That's a good position to be in.

I think when you hang out together she can't wait until you undress her. She seems like she can't stand talking to you and only wants your body.

 

[tdotseoul]

She despises your personality but you have good bedroom game and you are her booty call. That's a good position to be in.

I think when you hang out together she can't wait until you undress her. She seems like she can't stand talking to you and only wants your body.

How dare this *****!

 

[mr. kennedy]

5 serious questions:

1) How many times does she orgasm?
2) How many different positions do you use?
3) Do you eat her?
4) Does she give you a bj?
5) How long do you last?

It's the sex that's keeping you around.

 

[tdotseoul]

5 serious questions:

1) How many times does she orgasm?
2) How many different positions do you use?
3) Do you eat her?
4) Does she give you a bj?
5) How long do you last?

It's the sex that's keeping you around.

Well I would say I'm pretty good in bed.. and our sex compatibility is really good.
We have serious make out sessions and our sex is mind blowing!

but the weird thing is... she shows all these signs of no interest but she sometimes says somethings that confuses me...

Because last time we had sex she had to go to another city for work (this city is like an hour away) and I said "I guess this is our last night" and she was like "you are not going to meet me after I move?" and she genuinely looked hurt and sad about it...

She's gonna visit me this Thursday for the whole weekend. So, I'll see?

I think I have become the girl of this relationship... ****... adksjfagsaaj;kef

What can I do to flip the game around and turn it against her?

And yes, I genuinely like her more than just sex.

Help me I'm a hopeless romantic!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

That is why you don't rely solely on signs of interest.

Its something I'm in the process of doing now days as well.

I would always look for signs of interest & to a degree I still do since I've been conditioned to do that for years now.

However as long as she is still down to bang, then she is giving you the strongest IOI you could ever receive; her body.

Lastly to specifically answer your question; I've noticed girls give back what you give to them. So if you were aloof & seemed only marginally interested from the jump, she is playing it safe by doing the same thing.

Since she's moving its ideal to keep her as a FB and nothing more, but if you like her & want to develop something more, start to slowly show a bit more interest and see how she reacts.









PIMP+

 

[LorenzoVonM]

So this girl has been showing me so many signs of no interest.

- Using the phone and chatting when we are together
- Taking a long time to text back
- Cancels plans for her friends
- Doesn't talk much and thinks about other things when we are together
- Never initiates conversation
- Etc...

Wow! She sounds awesome!! I totally get why you are stressing over this.

Sounds to me like you got a taste of regular p*ssy and you are whipped.

Yes, you are the woman. Spin some more plates before you get full blown one-itis.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Yeah dude, be lucky you're the guy that's banging her and not the guy that's trying to bang here. I'm sure there's a few of them out there, probably taking her on dates...spending money on her.

Women want sex, it's a myth that they don't. If you're laying it down she'll keep you as a FB while she dates other guys and make them work for it. But as soon as you start to get attached and get emotional and start expressing your feelings she'll find a new FB.

I feel the only way you can escalate this relationship is to embrace your position as an FB. She's showing detachment from you because she's worried that if she doesn't, you'll fall for her and try to make it something more. It's probably happened before. She's letting you know the boundaries.....it's a defense mechanism.

Spin more plates man, like other posters have said. Your own value will increase, and she'll sense it. She's already starting to see the desperation in you, kick that $hit to the curb.

 

[tdotseoul]

Spin more plates man, like other posters have said. You're own value will increase, and she'll sense it. She's already starting to see the desperation in you, kick that $hit to the curb.

I have recognized this so I started to message with very short responses or sometimes not message her at all.

I think that is the best route so far...

 

[cervantesscthree]

How dare this *****!

Hahahaha!