So many people on this forum- yet so many lost

[Aazman]

I've only been on these forums for 2 months now- but I've noticed that there are some people who are still posting with noobish comments. Some having been on this site more than 2 years ago.

I've followed advise and used my own intuition in order to reach a status of a DJ.

but why haven't these people managed to?

 

[3countriesPlan]

There are pure kbjs here and also some guys who just analyze the crap out of things but don't really follow through in trying to make things happen. So as more the guys who work hard on their game grow and leave the site or get with some h0 and forget about the community, you'll see many kbjs here for what seems like eternity hashing on basic concepts and getting lame results (hug close, text message C+F, etc)

 

[Aazman]

ah okay. Well I was going to leave the community some time soon- but im in a deadlock on wether to bother to help other people.

I guess as they say- God only helps those who help themselves.

whats your reason for being on the forum? just asking- not insult

 

[Maxtro]

I think what matters most is what level the person was at before the found out about the game. There are many factors that contribute to how good somebody could be with women.

A guy who has a lot of friends and who has an outgoing personality will make much quicker progress than an introverted loner.

There is a huge social aspect that's not really talked about but it's very necessary.

Personally, I'm trying to work myself up from the very bottom. There are few people who started at a lower level than I did.

 

[Aazman]

but I guess your good- its says your a master don juan. or do these statuses on these forums not matter?

kudos tho maxtro- gotta love a underdog fight

yeah i'd say most of this stuff I knew already from general learning, but i can say if i had not found this forum I would have fallen into the world of PUA.

I did not start talking to women till I was 18. Before I was shy and was too boyish to bother. I'm only a year older since

and i have a friend who is devout on PUA and ALL women, find me more attractive when we're next to each other(although I am better looking ;p)

but I think that although there are two factors.

It doesn't matter what stage you start the ladder- the aim is the same. Some climb, some stay put. The difference is that those on top can look down and laugh, only encouraging those below to climb up.

 

[Warrior74]

That master duan juan crap is just for post count. It doesn't reflect the quality of the poster. Rep points are suppose to do that, but then that just means that a lot of people agree with what he says. The only true way to trust a poster is to see if his advice fits your style and try it in the real world.

 

[Trader]

I've only been on these forums for 2 months now- but I've noticed that there are some people who are still posting with noobish comments. Some having been on this site more than 2 years ago.

I've followed advise and used my own intuition in order to reach a status of a DJ.

but why haven't these people managed to?

Worry about yourself.

 

[Bible_Belt]

People tend to get what they want most out of life, whether they realize it or not.

 

[Aazman]

what do you mean? i'm a bit lost with that statement

 

[kingsam]

I've noticed that there are some people who are still posting with noobish comments. Some having been on this site more than 2 years ago.

but why haven't these people managed to?

every one has their own limiting issues, their personalities, socail networks, where they live, time/money affect how much you can practice - all this affects how fast they progress
and it depends where people start,
it takes a lot of experience to get really good - many pu people spend 3/4 days at week out gaining experience

I've only been on these forums for 2 months now...I've followed advise and used my own intuition in order to reach a status of a DJ.

you acheived it all in a few months? hmmm...

 

[omega05]

You say you have reached dj status by yourself but I bet if you post methods you use, someone will disagree (not me). If you feel you are a dj then more power to you. Many people are using this site as a crutch, posting whenever a female doesn't pick up the phone and other trivial things

 

[Aazman]

I'm not on this site to post and show how much of a man I am. I'm here to discuss opinions, approaches and general stuff about being a DJ.

I don't compete against other people, I compete against myself. I may have some pathetic approach, but the main point is I'm not perfect. So I keep going, refining my technique. A Don Juan is never perfect. No one is.

And of course people will disagree with my approach, its subject to opinion. Different things will work for different people- to a degree(haha). But the point is, I know to ask for advise and I know I have flaws.

Don Juan's are never perfect. They just make far fewer mistakes than the rest.

Aaz

 

[BigJimbo]

I'm not on this site to post and show how much of a man I am. I'm here to discuss opinions, approaches and general stuff about being a DJ.

I don't compete against other people, I compete against myself. I may have some pathetic approach, but the main point is I'm not perfect. So I keep going, refining my technique. A Don Juan is never perfect. No one is.

And of course people will disagree with my approach, its subject to opinion. Different things will work for different people- to a degree(haha). But the point is, I know to ask for advise and I know I have flaws.

Don Juan's are never perfect. They just make far fewer mistakes than the rest.

Aaz

Well, I achieved Masterclass status about three weeks ago. Have the medal to prove it. You have a long way to go. Hang in there.