"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so mad at myself...

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Wow i'm so mad at myself... i feel so weak, this annoying guy called me today and asked me to help him with his homework in a way i thought was annoying (he was like "u wanna help me with this homework?") and i realized i didn't really want to help him and that I should stand up and tell him I don't want to... but the words came out of my mouth so fast , I agreed to help without even realizing it and he even insulted me once while I was helping him, and I realized I should've just hung up... but i didn't... i feel like i have no control over myself now, is there any way to make myself more aware of this stuff? i find that at the beginning of the day I always set out to change myself but when I acutally get into social encounters i always go on autopilot and act beta
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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grow some balls you post op tranny.
 
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