"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so mad at myself...

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Wow i'm so mad at myself... i feel so weak, this annoying guy called me today and asked me to help him with his homework in a way i thought was annoying (he was like "u wanna help me with this homework?") and i realized i didn't really want to help him and that I should stand up and tell him I don't want to... but the words came out of my mouth so fast , I agreed to help without even realizing it and he even insulted me once while I was helping him, and I realized I should've just hung up... but i didn't... i feel like i have no control over myself now, is there any way to make myself more aware of this stuff? i find that at the beginning of the day I always set out to change myself but when I acutally get into social encounters i always go on autopilot and act beta
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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grow some balls you post op tranny.
 
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