“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So JLay87's Bootcamp Competition NEARLY got me into a Fight.

Capodeciña

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So I see the perfect opportunity to approach and talk to this average - looking Black Girl (Mulatto), she was abit on the hefty side, but I wasn't intentionally looking for a close (number). Competition rules, 2-10 minute convo right?

So I'm at the bus stop, I walk beside her, turn my head:

Capodeciña: Hey, can I get you're opinion on something real quick?
Her: (She nods)
Capodeciña: (smirking), do you think I look like a drug dealer?
Her: Noooo, no
Capodeciña:Ha, thank god, cos everyones been coming up to me tonight, asking if I have weed
Her: (Looks around) Oh okay..
Capodeciña: Why aren't you out tonight
Her: Just coming back from my boyfriends.....
Capodeciña: Oh cool, Sorry, my names Capodeciña, you? (PUTS OUT FOR HANDSHAKE)
Her: (looks at my hand) I don't know where you're hands been
Capodeciña: LOL, what? Wow, you really have that b!tchshield high, It's like OMFG Stranger Danger huh?
Her: (Looks around)
Capodeciña: So I sit down, look around, pivot, ETC ETC
Capodeciña: Wow, you look p!ssed, did you're boyfriend kick you out or something?
Her: LOL, no, dont be silly
Capodeciña: Oh kayyy, talking about drug dealers, are U high? you;re eyes are way RED....
Her: LOL, no I'm not
Capodeciña: So whats with the hostile attitude peaches? did you think I was hitting on U or something?
Her: No, but I don't think us both talking is doing anything for the rest of our day, isit?
Capodeciña: maybe not, but damn, a guy should be able to talk to a woman, heck, people should talk to people whether they know eachother or not. Friendly conversation won't do any harm on both parties I thought?, I was bored, so I thought I'd ask you on an opinion?
Her: yeah, welllllllllllllllll, its not doing anything for our day isit. Don't automatically think whenever you see a girl, she wants to talk

RANDOM GIRL COMES TO THE BUS STOP

Capodeciña: Sorry to bother you, but can I ask you something? If you weighed in at 15 STONES, would you be hella unapproachable and have attitude problems whenever a random guy comes and talks to you or would you socialise as much as possible due weight anxiety?


Random Girl: Urmmmm, (looks at girl) ahahhahahahaha, I would try to socialise as much as possible, I like the weight I am now
Capodeciña Title: Thank you ...................
Random Girl: (Laughs)

Girl: (Picks up phone and calls boyfriend) Can you please, please, come to the bus stop, theres some guy talking shyt to me, please, come now, please.

Capodeciña: LOL, what, you wanna cal you're boyfriend out of his bed, the one you should be in, but aren't for some reason for you're conciousness on you're weight?

Girl: Where you going? If my boyfriend was here, you would not be ALIVE TOMMOROW

Capodeciña: So I get ont he bus, and gesture with my stomach and blow bubbles in my mouth.

Random Girl: gets on the same bus, says, who does she think she is, saying that? .............She should be PRIVILEDGED THAT YOU'RE TALKING TO HER

BLA BLA BLA, she gets off and says be careful, don't talk to certain girls around here, some people aere funny, thats life............. and I'm like WTF, are Black chicks this STUCK UP? Sorry, but I now know why a high % of them are single and why Black guys are dating outside there racial demographic. Nevermind trying to pick her up, imagine if I was trying :nervous:

P.S, No digs at you JLay87, it's all on ME. I just wanted to highlight my reason to approach a LOW QUALITY RED FLAG like her, wasn't trying to PICK HER UP, just applying to the current Bootcamp rules
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scion

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How'd u nearly get into a fight? Some girl just talked **** and threatened you. And it was a empty threat at that, I don't her bf was gonna go fight you (unless he's ****ing retarded).
 

The Greek

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I'm not really familiar with the challenge, but you should not have said that to the random girl, just walk away from that rhino. You're not helping anything by putting her in her place, just extending the amount of time and influence that unpleasant person has on your pick up.
 

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Those are the kind of people that p!ss me off to no end.

I mean, what makes her so special?
 
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