So I've decided

[Hector]

#1. stay on this forum, have many questions and this forum seems like a good place to get answers.
#2. Apart from studying and all that good stuff I've decided to talk with other girls in the class; have fun; enjoy life
#3. Decided to step up a bit and work out; and focus on my priorities and build up on my self confidence.
#4. This one babe I liked she got a new bf; good for her but I've thought of it and decided to be out of her life for a little while(we'll still be friends but give her space; also give her space to miss me) even she claims to be busy too much to give me a call blah blah **** it.
#5. relax enjoy the ride.

So I'll be on today,tonight and maybe tomorow. But thats it from tomorow up till say April I will come back on this forum hopefully in better shape physically and mentally. So anything you wish to point out any tips with women or what to do with #4? before I go and update?

 

[Hector]

hey slefmademob tried replying to you but you're inbox is supposedly full

 

[Hector]

why dont you send me what you had in mind to me my inbox is not all that full

 

[Technical1]

#4. This one babe I liked she got a new bf; good for her but I've thought of it and decided to be out of her life for a little while(we'll still be friends but give her space; also give her space to miss me) even she claims to be busy too much to give me a call blah blah **** it.

Hey Hector, congratulations on seeing the light. I've been here 2 months and even without really doing much approaching I've done sh1t that totally blew my mind. I mostly work on inner game stuff right now and I STILL have successes left and right, girls coming up to me at school now and female coworkers wearing make-up at work for the first time ever, and drawing me into conversations about everything.

About your point number 4. Take this advice from me: drop that girl like a sack of cement blocks. Drop her. Next her. Drop her. Drop her. Kill every thought, memory, delete her phone number and (unless she is a part of your circle of friends) completely cut contact. Yet do not say anything about it, and always remain courteous to her if she contacts you, politely expressing that you are not interested in talking to her further, and cut the convos short. She is a critical link to your AFC past that you dont want to have. Later on you will realize how ridiculous it is that you mentioned in the same sentence that she has a BF and that you want to give her space to miss you. Bah!

Your first few mistakes are going to be too big to take back and thats why you need a fresh supply of girls and you are going to go thru girls like a mechanic fixing an oil leak will go thru rags. Dont try and use the old ones until you get good, just discard them. Fresh supply. Get a fresh supply. Its all about the fresh supply that you see everywhere around you. Use and discard until you attain mastery.