So it turns out I'm bisexual!

[Trapmaster]

I've had people say "I'm not surprised". Do I really transmit it that much?

So this was a fairly recent realization though I've spent some time coming to terms with it. It's pretty liberating now, as what used to make me think, "Oh no, I'm being feminine!" now makes me think, "duh, I'm being feminine". I love using both sexual energies, I don't see why I have to choose!

So yeah, through accepting this I've come to accept myself as a whole a lot more. It's crazy how much I was beating myself up about the little things I did that didn't fit in with the identity I had for myself.

This should go for everyone, though. It doesn't matter if you're bisexual or not, it's crazy to beat yourself up for not fitting into your gender role. I get this feeling that most men are trained to be scared of being sensitive, gentle and even nice. Spanish men are cooler about it, but most of my British friends I can't even hug.

Oh, and I should point out that despite what SS tells you, feminine men do attract women. I'm really flexible and seem to get into a complementary role with whatever lady I'm with - my latest girl is really feminine and I find myself being more active and protective with her - but I have been with girls of all sorts, and not one of them has been turned off by my femininity. Some have been really turned on by it, and told me so.

I'm still not sure whether to go around telling everyone this. I thought NLG would a good place to try and see what the reaction is, as it's a closed community and most people don't know me in real life.

In other news, I've more or less definitively decided I won't go ahead with the gigolo idea. It's almost a pity, because I could do REALLY well for myself now that I've expanded my portfolio to men.

 

[trent81]

As long as you don't grab my ass, I'll still talk to you.

 

[MAN_OF_TOMMOROW]

In that sense, do you give or take? (choco starfish) :s

 

[Allurre]

it's your sensitive side that attracts the ladies.

 

[DJDamage]

, "duh, I'm being feminine". I love using both sexual energies, I don't see why I have to choose!.

You are what you are, there is no choice in the matter. The only choice you now have is choosing between continuing being straight by fvcking girls or taking it up the ass and becoming a homo.

Your actions is what define you, not your thoughts.

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This should go for everyone, though. It doesn't matter if you're bisexual or not, it's crazy to beat yourself up for not fitting into your gender role...

This all have been discussed by Pook before but I will regurgitate for you as best I could ( don't be thinking homo thoughts after I said "regurgitate" ok?)

Gender does matter, you don't get to pick your gender. If you are trying to deviate from your gender, it will be nature that punishes you. It is why AFC's who don't get pvssy are always sad/frustrated with their lives and why homosexuals are also not happy (ever wondered why homosexuals are called "gay"? gay used to mean happy, but somebody decided to put that label on homsexuals so they won't feel bad about their situation.)

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I get this feeling that most men are trained to be scared of being sensitive, gentle and even nice. Spanish men are cooler about it, but most of my British friends I can't even hug..

Different cultures have different acceptable behaviours of men. The one thing that will be common of straight Spanish men and British men is that unlike you they won't want to suck someone's d1ck in the near future.

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Oh, and I should point out that despite what SS tells you, feminine men do attract women. I'm really flexible and seem to get into a complementary role with whatever lady I'm with - my latest girl is really feminine and I find myself being more active and protective with her - but I have been with girls of all sorts, and not one of them has been turned off by my femininity. Some have been really turned on by it, and told me so..

Feminine men attract women because their behaviour advertises sexuality and when a man advertises his sexuality (even if its homosexuality, it makes women wonder about you) he will do better then most men who don't advertise and are afraid to be sexuals (most afc's are shy and scared to game chicks). Masculine men do advertise their sexuality and aren't afraid of their sexuality and they get way more pvssy then AFC's and Fairys.

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I'm still not sure whether to go around telling everyone this..

Don't.

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In other news, I've more or less definitively decided I won't go ahead with the gigolo idea. It's almost a pity, because I could do REALLY well for myself now that I've expanded my portfolio to men.

Its a good idea that you don't become a gigolo because homosexual males have the highest incident rate of STD's and if you fvck women afterwards, well then you are just helping to spread the problem instead of keeping it in one location.

 

[moneyisking]

ewwww... i am sorry, but the idea of another man sticking banana into other man's azzhole is really disturbing to me. well, at least you do girls, so there's some hope for you.

 

[LovelyLady]

If you are trying to deviate from your gender, it will be nature that punishes you.

DJDamage, do you see Nature as a rational force, doling out punishment and rewards based on sexual behaviors? If so, do you believe nature does this only with homo sapians - or would this apply to the rest of the animal kingdom as well?

It is why AFC's who don't get pvssy are always sad/frustrated with their lives and why homosexuals are also not happy

Am I understanding you correctly here that your stated belief : "AFC'S and homosexuals are unhappy", is that the state of presumed unhappiness is the result of Nature's punishing them?

(ever wondered why homosexuals are called "gay"? gay used to mean happy, but somebody decided to put that label on homsexuals so they won't feel bad about their situation.)

Your supporting statement is based on a false etymology - here is some information that may help clear up this often misunderstood reason for the use of the word "gay" as it is used in reference to homosexuality.

http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=gay :

gay

1178, "full of joy or mirth," from O.Fr. gai "gay, merry" (12c.); cf. O.Sp. gayo, Port. gaio, It. gajo.

Ultimate origin disputed; perhaps from Frank. *gahi (cf. O.H.G. wahi "pretty"), though not all etymologists accept this.

Meaning "brilliant, showy" is from c.1300.

OED gives 1951 as earliest date for slang meaning "homosexual" (adj.), but this is certainly too late; gey cat "homosexual boy" is attested in N. Erskine's 1933 dictionary of "Underworld & Prison Slang;" the term gey cat (gey is a Scot. variant of gay) was used as far back as 1893 in Amer.Eng. for "young hobo," one who is new on the road and usually in the company of an older tramp, with catamite connotations.

But Josiah Flynt ["Tramping With Tramps," 1905] defines gay cat as, "An amateur tramp who works when his begging courage fails him."

Gey cats also were said to be tramps who offered sexual services to women.

The "Dictionary of American Slang" reports that gay (adj.) was used by homosexuals, among themselves, in this sense since at least 1920.

Rawson ["Wicked Words"] notes a male prostitute using gay in reference to male homosexuals (but also to female prostitutes) in London's notorious Cleveland Street Scandal of 1889. Ayto ["20th Century Words"] calls attention to the ambiguous use of the word in the 1868 song "The Gay Young Clerk in the Dry Goods Store," by U.S. female impersonator Will S. Hays. The word gay in the 1890s had an overall tinge of promiscuity -- a gay house was a brothel.


The suggestion of immorality in the word can be traced back to 1637. Gay as a noun meaning "a (usually male) homosexual" is attested from 1971.

 

[LovelyLady]

Deleted due to questions as to the voracity of the i.d. of the OP.

 

[DavenJuan]

why is this thread "word for word" at NLG as a different user?

the gig is up

 

[alphamailman]

I've had people say "I'm not surprised". Do I really transmit it that much?

So this was a fairly recent realization though I've spent some time coming to terms with it. It's pretty liberating now, as what used to make me think, "Oh no, I'm being feminine!" now makes me think, "duh, I'm being feminine". I love using both sexual energies, I don't see why I have to choose!

So yeah, through accepting this I've come to accept myself as a whole a lot more. It's crazy how much I was beating myself up about the little things I did that didn't fit in with the identity I had for myself.

This should go for everyone, though. It doesn't matter if you're bisexual or not, it's crazy to beat yourself up for not fitting into your gender role. I get this feeling that most men are trained to be scared of being sensitive, gentle and even nice. Spanish men are cooler about it, but most of my British friends I can't even hug.

Oh, and I should point out that despite what SS tells you, feminine men do attract women. I'm really flexible and seem to get into a complementary role with whatever lady I'm with - my latest girl is really feminine and I find myself being more active and protective with her - but I have been with girls of all sorts, and not one of them has been turned off by my femininity. Some have been really turned on by it, and told me so.

I'm still not sure whether to go around telling everyone this. I thought NLG would a good place to try and see what the reaction is, as it's a closed community and most people don't know me in real life.

In other news, I've more or less definitively decided I won't go ahead with the gigolo idea. It's almost a pity, because I could do REALLY well for myself now that I've expanded my portfolio to men.

Really, you miserable 30-year-old bastard, "Trapmaster"? Or should I say My Name is Nobody/Somebody/ Vlad the Impaler You sure do like to hide behind a lot of false identities and BS about who you are. Let me tell it like it is, you live in Fauquier County, Virginia, home of the homosexual capital of the Washington D.C. region. You live in WARRENTON, VIRGINIA and you also happen to have a thing for BPD ****s, but you still are a turd burglar. You work a dead end job in Sterling, Virginia that you claim is a "top-secret" GS-IV entry level job, but wait, you got CANNED from that gig.

I'm not afraid of YOU or MYSELF on the internet and on the streets. You won't see me hiding behind Smith machines, false user names or piles of Icehouse beer, NEVER. In fact, I invite you to drop by Blacksburg and attempt to beat my ass. You like to use baseball bats to fight, so bring that Louisville Slugger, your 220 lb. blob-form will need it. Fighting is a hobby of mine, as if my busted eardrum from this summers tournament wasn't enough proof. You are pathetic to your indolent core. Bring it homey.

You were banned from NLG for being fat, stupid and drunk. Hopefully soon Iqqi, JoeKerr, Squirrels, Ketostinx and Kerpal will be joining your low-status here soon.

It can be deduced from this thread that you are spineless.:rock:

 

[hamilton]

I dunno anything about what the rest of these guys are saying, but the only bisexual guy I knew was a ladies man to the extreme. Consider yourself lucky, you have double the options of those who only swing one way. I really do not think there are any negatives to being bisexual.

 

[Trapmaster]

Rn fact, I invite you to drop by Blacksburg and attempt to beat my ass. You like to use baseball bats to fight, so bring that Louisville Slugger, your 220 lb. blob-form will need it. Fighting is a hobby of mine, as if my busted eardrum from this summers tournament wasn't enough proof. You are pathetic to your indolent core. Bring it homey.

You were banned from NLG for being fat, stupid and drunk. Hopefully soon Iqqi, JoeKerr, Squirrels, Ketostinx and Kerpal will be joining your low-status here soon.

It can be deduced from this thread that you are spineless.:rock:

I have no idea who you are or what you are talking about. I am the real trapmaster and I USED to post on NLG but I don't anymore that place is for losers.

It seems like you have serious issues. You say this:

eally, you miserable 30-year-old bastard, "Trapmaster"? Or should I say My Name is Nobody/Somebody/ Vlad the Impaler You sure do like to hide behind a lot of false identities and BS about who you are.


I'm not afraid of YOU or MYSELF on the internet and on the streets. You won't see me hiding behind Smith machines, false user names or piles of Icehouse beer, NEVER.

And then I go to that NLG site and read your post and you say this:

Go read the thread again, to all who feel it suspicious. This is me coming out of retirement to post in this god damn forum. I don't use this username on NLG, rather it's H-man. I don't use this username on SS, in fact I don't go to SS, it sucks, but when I do feel like stirring up that ****pot, I go by "alphamailman."

So who is really hiding? That's right. YOU.

Funny. Go back to bed kid.

 

[eaglez1177]

I think the mods should be on watch here....I have a feeling this thread is gonna turn ugly

 

[mikeymic]

kids these days............*sigh*

 

[trent81]

Throughout history, you can see this in many ancient novels, poems, etc. The dudes who are ankle biting have seen interest from women ten fold. Women are interested in changing a feminine man and also the mystery of whether he suvks **** or not is really intriguing to them. So yes, if he's one of those pretty boys with a nice smile and good looks, he will get chicks like crazy, ESPECIALLY IF HE BATS FOR THE OTHER TEAM. Did you asholves think that women only prefer masculinity? Wrong, go read those ancient writers. These *****ess are so ****ed in the head, that they love feminine men too. It's crazy.

 

[trent81]

I dunno anything about what the rest of these guys are saying, but the only bisexual guy I knew was a ladies man to the extreme. Consider yourself lucky, you have double the options of those who only swing one way. I really do not think there are any negatives to being bisexual.

I disagree with this. The STD and death rates of homesexual men are more than 70 times of heterosexuals. This includes HIV, suicide, murder (rape). It's tough batting for the other team. That's why most of them get sex changes. It's a crazy world out there, just watch your butt cheeks.

 

[Desdinova]

You also have a multiple personality disorder

 

[The Asian Lover]

You are gay. I have no problem with gay people. Now keep this in mind.

1. This is a site for straight men that want to game women.
2. We have no problem with you sleeping with men, but please stay away from our women. AIDS is a b*tch.

 

[Trapmaster]

. Hopefully soon Iqqi, JoeKerr, Squirrels, Ketostinx and Kerpal will be joining your low-status here soon.

Keep other peoples names out of your punk mouth. This is an important lesson in life KID.

It will bite you in the ass. Call me Daddy.

 

[Desdinova]

And with that being said, thus ends another 5hitty thread that has spun retardedly into the cesspool filled with happy little poop nuggets.

THREAD CLOSED