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So is vibing just matching their energy level??

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I've heard of vibing for a while now and wondered what exactly, anyways I read some article on it earlier and it kinda said a little abot but it didn't explain it to much.

So I was wondering is vibing just like when you approach a set or just someone and you match their energy level, or their mood, and try and stay consistent with it, or is vibing something that's just natural?
 

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Vibing just means that you connect with that other person. You have a common ground, a shared belief, a common hobby, same interest, same outlook, etc.

For example you and I are vibing right now because we have shared interest (which is banging girls). Granted, we can't see each other face to face, but we can picture talking to each other and see how that interaction would pan out. You could be really hyper and high energy and curious while I could be low key and laid back and relaxed. Clearly, our energy levels aren't a match but we understand each other on some level about the topic we are discussing.

See what I did there? I sorta vibed with you.

Plus, you don't really want to match their moods/energy levels. Would you really want to try and match the mood of some girl who is b!tchy, depressed, sad, etc.?
 
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