so is treating a girl with love and respect considered "afc" behavior?

[HolyTrinity]

i for one like to tell the ladies i'm with that i love them and like to give them plenty of complements :flowers: i have never been the type of guy who is just looking to go out and F*CK girls because to me sex without love is meaningless. i've been in two 3 year relationships, and am starting a new relationship already. It holds true to me that if a relationship seems to be going well, the more i tell the woman i love her the better. honestly even if telling a girl i loved them hurt the relationship, i would still do it because theres not a whole lot a man can say to a girl that is more respectful and caring than love.

to you guys am i just another AFC guy for having real emotions for a woman? if this is such wrong behavior how's come girls always seemed to get hooked to me regardless.

 

[Energizer]

It's not AFC to have feelings for a woman, to love a woman, to want to marry a woman etc, but it is AFC to continually compliment a woman and tell her love her constantly. I know a man from my local pub and he gave me this pearl of wisdom. "If you love a woman show her you love her by giving her most passionate sex of her life". He warned me about continually telling a girl you love her. Think about it, the more you tell her you love her, the less meaning and feeling that word has. You start sounding insecure and AFC-ish and that is when things take a turn for the worse.

The quotation "Actions speak louder than words" exists for a reason.

 

[HolyTrinity]

i totally agree, there is definitely a point of giving too many complements where it would just be annoying to any woman. i dont think a couple nice complements a day and one or two i love you's on the days i see the girl is bad, especially when couple with amazing affection/mind blowing sex.

the sex is what tells me that telling her i love her/complementing her doesnt make much of a difference the way i do it. she still gets extremely wet and still wants me in her so bad every time so far.

 

[Energizer]

I'm a sincere man and will only compliment a woman when I mean it. Waking up everyday and saying "I love you" is not something I will naturally do, but I guess everyone is different.

One thing I notice about people who are in relationships is that they get into a routine where they feel they have to do something which is an attitude that I abhor. Routine is a crime against humanity which is sadly what we are all guilty of doing, but that's life.

If you like being in a relationship then more power too you. Just make sure you don't become a pathetic whiney b*tch like a lot of men do when they "fall" for a girl. Keep true to yourself and lead the relationship and you'll be fine.

 

[HolyTrinity]

thanks for the encouraging words energizer dont worry i will never be a winey ***** boy. i have alot of pride in myself as a man and as a man i know not to act pathetic and weak. i think there may be some confusion between AFC and a confidence in verbally expressing your feelings for a woman. AFC is very much like the pathetic ***** boy type of guy in my mind.

also i still agree that actions hit alot harder than words cus like they say, talk is cheap. i feel like a "baby i love you" every once in a while helps. some girls really want to just hear it despite all of the amazing physical and mental pleasure we bring. also i am a firm believer in the golden rule, i would like to know for sure if a girl loves me, so i tell them in order to do the whole treat others the way you would like to be treated sort of thing...

im posting this rant mainly because i had another amazing night with this girl who is basically my dream girl. gorgeous 17 year old girl amazing in bed and always ready for more no mater how many times i empty out in a night. i really cannot ask for a better girl than this one. :yes:

 

[The Champ]

im posting this rant mainly because i had another amazing night with this girl who is basically my dream girl. gorgeous 17 year old girl amazing in bed and always ready for more no mater how many times i empty out in a night. i really cannot ask for a better girl than this one. :yes:

Don't brag about getting laid around here. You will be the most hated man in this forum. I bragged about getting laid, and I was flamed so much I got banned.

How old are you?

 

[Poonani Maker]

The objective of women is to PEEL the love off of You. If you have insurmountable love for yourself and others, then her goal will be to isolate and capture your love. So pour in and out love, be a conduit, and it will show to onlooking women, and they will try to get close.

 

[HolyTrinity]

Don't brag about getting laid around here. You will be the most hated man in this forum. I bragged about getting laid, and I was flamed so much I got banned.

How old are you?

definately not bragging. just a confession of my happiness i feel i need to share to the entire world because of how good it makes me feel inside. but thx for your concern

i'm 22 by the way:yes:

 

[Desdinova]

There's nothing wrong with giving a woman love and respect. The problem comes when you SPOIL her with love and respect, and give it unconditionally regardless of how she loves and respects you.

 

[Bonafide]

Hey guys im a guru around here and I can tell you this...the best advice anybody could ever give you is this...



Dont get laid.