"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So ****ing bored...

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Okay I am in my school holidays at this time came back froma holday 2 weeks agow ith my family and i brought a friend too. I got 15 days left in my holiday. It gets so ****ing boring. Plus there is nothing to do where I live.

Typical day
wake up at 9 or so..

Eat breakfast and relax , play some games till 11.30am. then

11.30-.1.30 gym and shower etc


1.30-3.30- relax

and come to think of it what the **** else is there I can do during the day times besides exercise and play games. Yes i do have plenty of friends but its a very **** place wheer I live and the best thign we can do is go to the mall or play soccer at the park and going to the mall everyday is zzz there is nothing 2 do there.

Overall i need some more hobbies or somehtign I really enjoy the gym and after it I get bored and dunno what else I could do. I also swim daily at the local pool.

any ideas would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well, get a hobby. BTW, plenty of hoes at the mall on saturday afternoons. Go pimpin
 
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Dude i Know exactly how you feel Menilo, Everything you said applies to me. Take up a hobby you can build up on until your really good at it. I recently started learning to play guitar, find something like that to do.
 
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Im in australia so ye... only good days are when its hot and me and my m8s go beach one has a car btw im only 17 still underage.

Still i just got a lack of things to do. any more options
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Go and check out local restaurants. Me and my mates regularly goto the restaurants around here and see what they have to offer. Explore the city you live in.

Get a few good hobbies. Right now I'm doing a few things that keep me occupied when I'm not out browsing the town with mates. I've started learning guitar, everyone loves a guy that can play guitar and I enjoy playing it. Also I've picked up a few geekier hobbies. Bought a microcontroller kit and am getting into building all kinds of cool eletronic gizmos. Learning to code in different languages is a good skill to have. Picked up a copy of Flash 8 Professional and am learning all about making my own webcomics and animations.
 
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Where abouts in Australia are you? I'm in Perth, myself...

There's plenty of things you can do...you just have to find something that interests you, we can't tell you what to do...so go out and explore.
 
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Complaining isn't going to help anything, doing something about it is. Now, I don't live in Australia, so I don't know how true this will hold, but dude, if your life is boring, do something to make it active. Join a club, a local sports team, get a job, go to the gym, sign up for a class, learn how to play a musical instrument, there are so many things you can do to break this cycle of boredness.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haha ye go dragons. Well today I am going for my L's licence we shall c how that goes!!
 
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Alright...Why hasn't anyone recommended sarging? Instead of just going to the mall and looking at the newest digimon posters, why don't you meet some girls? If you need help...DJ Bible Bootcamp would definitely get you started.
 
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