"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So in everyones opinions

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who are some of the posters who give some of the best advice

What i've got out of the replies:
Mavrick + 2 2/3
Senor Fingers + 2
MacAvoy +2 2/3
DonGordon +1
LeComteDeMonteCristo + 1/3
TruthTeller +1/3
Francisco d'Anconia +1
KontrollerX +1
Penkitten +1
Victory Unlimited +1
bmxcetera + 1 2/3
MNIN +1
guitarwhizz +1
stand +1

(wow this **** is becoming to much!)
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mavrick is pretty good when it comes to advice. I hope thats how it spelt.
 

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**** yall haters anyways

words are magic :box: from the myspace to the couch im crashing on, bringing agreed upon no strings sexual relations to a **** in my pants
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well personally

im looking for advice on getting no string sexual relations started any advice in that area is what im looking for maybe even some advice about picking these girls up online cause thats what im going to do regardless of what people think about it. People can say something negative about that, theres nothing i can do except list their names up at the top with a -1,2,3 and so on
 

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People who have sincerely helped me via PMing:
-Francisco d'Anconia
-KontrollerX
-Penkitten
-Victory Unlimited
To them I am grateful and will continue to be. Thank you very much.

Though he hasn't helped me through our PM's, I appreciate that MNIN is open to communicate w/me.

Though I haven't had any type of correspondences w/him, I really appreciate anything coming off of Señor Fingers keyboard. He's been around and has recently come back again!
 

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MacAvoy gives great advice. He always caught me off guard and really helped me to realize the true issues within myself. It all starts from within. It takes true responsibility for your own actions and decisions to get yourself to a place where you truly want to be. He motivated me to dig deeper, and to learn not to be so judgmental.

There are so many others that give such great advice, that I'd hate to leave anyone out, but there are so many.

The most encouraging and positive advice is simply the best advice.
 

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Stripes said:
im looking for advice on getting no string sexual relations started any advice in that area is what im looking for maybe even some advice about picking these girls up online
I can't recall too many guys that give out no string sexual advice because I usually ignore them because they tend to be loud & obnoxious to the AFC's around here.

However I do recall stand having some excellent LR's, from what I gather guitarwhizz is also great at doing cold approaches and closing.

My advice though is to just read the board for a few weeks and you'll know who the posters are, its pretty obvious the personalities & skill sets.

edit: the best way to get advice is to make a post, you'll get varied points of view, which IMO is better than one perspective. However smart posters ignore the negative & stupid advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I really appreciate the people and recognition thats in this thread.
 

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I'm going to have to hope you can look past the fact that i am a loud obnoxious potentially bad advising person. Why because Mavrick had so much good to say about you, and he is sincere. Your admirable in my book and Mavrick is also very admirable in my book being able to say such things of you. You must be in the know.
 

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Stripes said:
I'm going to have to hope you can look past the fact that i am a loud obnoxious potentially bad advising person.
Where did I say you were loud, obnoxious & potentially bad advising person? I was responding to your more detailed request about guys who give advice about no strings sex, the guys on here that generally do that are generally young & full of themselves, & they get into pissing contests with the AFC's calling each other names. That was my point.
 

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no

you didn't say that about me, im just letting you know that i am or can be obnoxious and annoying
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KarmaSutra, Interceptor, SRT8UP off the type of my head, but definitely more.
 
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Stripes said:
who are some of the posters who give some of the best advice

What i've got out of the replies:
Mavrick + 2 2/3
Senor Fingers + 2
MacAvoy +2 2/3
DonGordon +1
LeComteDeMonteCristo + 1/3
TruthTeller +1/3
Francisco d'Anconia +1
KontrollerX +1
Penkitten +1
Victory Unlimited +1
bmxcetera + 1 2/3
MNIN +1
guitarwhizz +1
stand +1

(wow this **** is becoming to much!)
MNIM overanalyses every single thing a woman does, dont take advice from him
 

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Stripes said:
who are some of the posters who give some of the best advice

Off the top of my head these are the posters I've grown to respect and value their input. I'm sure I'm forgetting a few but I will add them when I think of them.

*Drum Roll*

Victory Unlimited
LoneSilver
Interceptor
Mr. Positive
Guru 1000
MNIN
Magma
Bible Belt
Jophil 28
Senor Fingers
Karma Sutra
JoeKerr38
Rollo

There are others, I'm sure. Cheers! :cheer:
 

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positivity_injection said:
MNIM overanalyses every single thing a woman does, dont take advice from him
MNIN is not a good example.
 
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