"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I'm trying Myspace sarging,and I think I already have one hooked.

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Well I decided to see why so many are meeting people online. I sent out some friends request to chicks that seem nice and not attention *****s. This one chick accepted and sent me a message saying "Hi,whats up". Now I'm looking for a crash course on Myspace sarging. How do your initial conversations go? Any Myspace expierenced DJs want to enlighten me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MySpace girls that are physically attractive (6+) are 50% attention vvhore teenagers that are just looking for praise and adulation, 25% single mothers desperate to find someone who will put up with their encumberances, 20% men posturing with women's pics because the like screwing with guys on there, and 5% normal girls that have no huge problems/baggage and are there to meet people for normal, healthy relationships/friendships.

Not impossible, but the odds are stacked against you from the start.

And not to crash your hopes, but any internet "hi" message is virtually worthless. Girls can and usually will act with more aplomb and openness on the internet because of it's inherent anonymity. They can lead you on and drop you when they feel like it because they don't know you, don't have to look you in the face, and don't have to worry about you stalking them or goin gto their house if they piss you off.

As far as sarging them, start one convo about something that they've talked about on their main page, then after their response tell them that you'd really like to talk to them more about it but you're not usually on the computer enough and get a phone number.

MySpace/HotOrNot/Match.com/PlentyOfFish, all of those places can be ok for finding people that you might not otherwise ever see, but you're not going to build anything substantial on the internet. Now that you have an open lin of communication, get the number. If you don't get it in three messages, move on. If you get an AIM or Yahoo Messenger, then give it two convos on there to get a number and if you don't get it by then, bail. If you don't have it by then, either you're not getting it at all, or she's going to make you jump through hoops to get it. Screw that.
 

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No such thing as an internet DJ- myspace or not. If you want real experience and real results, you had better try your game in the real world...

And before anyone calls me a hypocrite, please keep in mind that I have not been hanging around here (sosuave) for nearly two years.
 

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Spike_the_Dragon said:
No such thing as an internet DJ- myspace or not. If you want real experience and real results, you had better try your game in the real world...
I entirely agree that the real world is where you build your foundation. I have gone out with my fair share of women(75% meet at my job) and am willing to try something new,which is why I choose Myspace. I know someone from work who now lives with a guy she meet from Myspace and they have been strong for 1 year now. I actually went out with an attention ***** from Myspace 2 years ago,but thats all she was nothing else(in fact I have no clue why she was all over me), but I got what I was after. I was just interested in trying something new(last one didnt count).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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