"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I'm trying Myspace sarging,and I think I already have one hooked.

blinkwatt

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Well I decided to see why so many are meeting people online. I sent out some friends request to chicks that seem nice and not attention *****s. This one chick accepted and sent me a message saying "Hi,whats up". Now I'm looking for a crash course on Myspace sarging. How do your initial conversations go? Any Myspace expierenced DJs want to enlighten me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MySpace girls that are physically attractive (6+) are 50% attention vvhore teenagers that are just looking for praise and adulation, 25% single mothers desperate to find someone who will put up with their encumberances, 20% men posturing with women's pics because the like screwing with guys on there, and 5% normal girls that have no huge problems/baggage and are there to meet people for normal, healthy relationships/friendships.

Not impossible, but the odds are stacked against you from the start.

And not to crash your hopes, but any internet "hi" message is virtually worthless. Girls can and usually will act with more aplomb and openness on the internet because of it's inherent anonymity. They can lead you on and drop you when they feel like it because they don't know you, don't have to look you in the face, and don't have to worry about you stalking them or goin gto their house if they piss you off.

As far as sarging them, start one convo about something that they've talked about on their main page, then after their response tell them that you'd really like to talk to them more about it but you're not usually on the computer enough and get a phone number.

MySpace/HotOrNot/Match.com/PlentyOfFish, all of those places can be ok for finding people that you might not otherwise ever see, but you're not going to build anything substantial on the internet. Now that you have an open lin of communication, get the number. If you don't get it in three messages, move on. If you get an AIM or Yahoo Messenger, then give it two convos on there to get a number and if you don't get it by then, bail. If you don't have it by then, either you're not getting it at all, or she's going to make you jump through hoops to get it. Screw that.
 

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No such thing as an internet DJ- myspace or not. If you want real experience and real results, you had better try your game in the real world...

And before anyone calls me a hypocrite, please keep in mind that I have not been hanging around here (sosuave) for nearly two years.
 

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Spike_the_Dragon said:
No such thing as an internet DJ- myspace or not. If you want real experience and real results, you had better try your game in the real world...
I entirely agree that the real world is where you build your foundation. I have gone out with my fair share of women(75% meet at my job) and am willing to try something new,which is why I choose Myspace. I know someone from work who now lives with a guy she meet from Myspace and they have been strong for 1 year now. I actually went out with an attention ***** from Myspace 2 years ago,but thats all she was nothing else(in fact I have no clue why she was all over me), but I got what I was after. I was just interested in trying something new(last one didnt count).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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