so im laying in bed w. my girlfriend, and..

[jay07]

Yeah, yall are right. Wish i woulda said somethin combined w. What everyones sayin. She just keeps textin me 2 liners like a sad face, or miss you.

Im starting to wonder if she even understands wtf she did

 

[LiveFreeX]

Dump her or stop complaining, it will never get better.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Does She Understand What She Did?

Im starting to wonder if she even understands wtf she did

The b*tch gets gets a text from a dude, she gets up in order to take the call in private. She gets another text, reply to that text with, "Bring me some food," even though just minutes prior you made an inquiry about her being hungry. One can surmise about your inquiry about whether or not she was hungry, take you too, were hungry, so let's break this down. Ole Rex has underline the conscious decisions that ole girl made during this entire episode.

Conscious Decision #1

I ask her if she wants to get food and she shrugs it off.

Conscious Decision #2

Then her phone vibrates and she says "so-and-so texted me" then walks upstairs

Conscious Decision #3

When she gets back he texts her again

She returned the text. WTF were they texting about? Rex seriously doubts it was about food.

Conscious Decision #4 Coupled with Sh*t Test

while she was upstairs she sent "bring me food"

Suddenly, the b*tch gets hungry and has this other fool bringing her food, never mind the fact that you just asked if she was hungry. Adding insult to muthaf*ckin' injury, she the selfish, thoughtless b8tch doesn't care if you might want something eat, but SHE HAS THE NEXT MUTHAF*CKER BRING HER TRIFLIN A$$ FOOD TO THE HOUSE WHILE YOU'RE THERE! Your "girlfriend," makes four conscious decisions in the time span of probably a five to ten minutes and you're wondering if she realized what she's done? Y'all muthaf*ckas never cease to amaze ole Rex.

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x87m4r_american-pimp-7-of-9_shortfilms

Go to 5:53-6:22 and 6:39-7:03 of the tape.

Now I'm not telling to whoop ole girl's a$$, what the good Bishop is saying that you need to check these hoes, and that's what your girl wanted you to do in this instance, she wanted and most of all she NEEDED for you to check her punk a$$. She wanted for you to tell her that she was wrong and what she did was completely and totally unacceptable. Ole girl is losing respect for you and you need to stop this immediately if you want to maintain your relationship.

Just as hoes need to know there's consequences and repercussions for their actions, square women need to be aware of the same things and that's what the Don Juan (the former pimp,) was saying. Your girl is losing respect for you because she thinks you don't value your relationship. She feels that she can do anything with anybody, and you don't give a f*ck. She feels that there's no boundaries on your relationship. She needs to know you care, she needs those boundaries, she needs to know that she MUST YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND MOST IMPORTANTLY YOU MUST RESPECT YOU AS A MAN! If isn't or can't do that, then she can't have you.

That's why you have to freeze her out. This is give a little taste of what it's like to be without you. It's also to let her know that drop her punk a$$ at a moment's notice and you're not somebody to f*ck with, and if she does get out of pocket, then "Bye b*tch." Watch that clip and read this thread on how to check a b*tch, http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2106570#post2106570, Post #92

 

[mikey2012]

If she's hot then you are toast because her IL in you is low otherwise she wouldn't even be texting the other dude. Hot girls will always have dudes making a move on them. The only way to keep them loyal to you is to keep their IL high which mean if you need them more than they need you they will smell this and you be toast . I'm afraid she knows this about you and is cheating or will probably cheat on you. Sooner or later you will get dumped .

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

That's not even a checkable offense. It should be a straight up charge.

OP isn't going to act on it however but he knows we're right.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

She's testing you like any woman should and would.

Grab your balls and man up when she S@#$ tests you.

Tell her you'll get some food with some other girl and that's she is wasting your time.

 

[Trump]

I ask her if she wants to get food and she shrugs it off. Then her phone vibrates and she says "so-and-so texted me" then walks upstairs.

When she gets back he texts her again and while she was upsgairs she sent "bring me food".Which pisses me off since i just asked her if she wanted to go w. Me to get food. And apparently hes bringing it to her. But i got dressed and told her i was leaving.

Now she texted me some crap but would you guys pull the attention away from her and not text her back for a while or am i blowing this out of proportion. I think its disrespectful she asks another dude to bring her food while im laying right next to her ass

Bro she's literally spitting in your face and you are asking if its disrepectful?

I would text back "Do you want me to hit you in the face?" But unfortunately if you do that you get a record and go to jail while she gets free food and sex. Beauty of a free country where all sexes are created equal.

 

[Don_Dom]

Honestly, this is the worst failure of a **** test I've ever seen.
And I suck with **** tests.

The op didn't even make sense to me.

Maybe I'm old. You kids need to get a handle on your *****es before designating them gf. This is random fb behavior. Posts that included the words "low" and "quality" probably ought to be re-read.

 

[HoneyHitter]

Haha dude this **** is clear as day...

First of all, chicks don't sneak out in front of you to message a guy who's "just an orbiter". She was hungry for his **** and was scheming to give him a bj, while you'd be waiting for her upstairs.

In her mind she's already dumped you ages ago. She's just waiting for the best possible branch-swinging or cuckolding situation to occur.

Dump her. Now.

 

[Maximus Rex]

So The Situation Isn't Savageable?

That's not even a checkable offense. It should be a straight up charge.

But AJ, you don't this behavior can be corrected but a strong checking and a freeze out? I think that babygirl just needs some boundaries put on her punk a$$. Also, what level of disrespect do you think this is?

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

It's high up there because before I get in a relationship with a female I make it a boundary about other males contacting her on friendly stuff. No guy wants to just be friends with the type of females I deal with. This would've been a dealbreaker.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Haha dude this **** is clear as day...

First of all, chicks don't sneak out in front of you to message a guy who's "just an orbiter". She was hungry for his **** and was scheming to give him a bj, while you'd be waiting for her upstairs.

In her mind she's already dumped you ages ago. She's just waiting for the best possible branch-swinging or cuckolding situation to occur.

Dump her. Now.

"bring me food"

And he brings her food.

Sounds like an orbiter to me. And, by most accounts, aren't orbiters the guys that aren't having sex with the girl?

IMO, she's insecure, and has issues stemming from previous relationships.

OP asked her if she wanted food, she said no. Then she has another guy bring her food. What does that say? It says she was trying to show the OP there are other guys out there who are willing to provide her "food". Why would she do that? To me it means she's insecure.

Like I said previously, the last thing the OP wants to do is to get butt hurt over it, showing that he would be insecure. But, like many of the posters have said, in that situation, it is disrespectful inviting another guy over for whatever reason. This should not be accepted. It's an invasion.

In my book, if she would have gone about it differently, "hey, how about I have so and so bring us over something to eat?" Letting me choose, then, I might have been okay with it.

Otherwise, she does need to know that this is not okay.

 

[pdx1138]

OP you're just a plate to her...not a boyfriend.

Treat her as a plate if you want to get laid, but I'd dump her ass and move on.
She knows she can disrespect you....not likely to change.

 

[TenOfSpades]

You should have just said for him to bring you some too, if she said no then you leave saying im going out to eat then and don't talk to her for a bit. Don't show your all pouty about it.

I love all the guys that respond with the whole she wanted you gone and wanted his **** right then. If any SSer came here and posted from the other guys perspective. Saying this girl texted me asking me to bring her over food while she was with another guy. Instead of saying he was going to deliver food and get some poon like you all are saying now, you would say shes using you for food, she does not want s3x from you blah blah blah.

Literally every answer on here is mostly illogical. If you are a SSer every time theres a question its always the bad. If theres a question that involves some other guy, its always good for him and negative for the SSer. Some cult style tactics being used on here.

 

[Trump]

You should have just said for him to bring you some too, if she said no then you leave saying im going out to eat then and don't talk to her for a bit. Don't show your all pouty about it.

I love all the guys that respond with the whole she wanted you gone and wanted his **** right then. If any SSer came here and posted from the other guys perspective. Saying this girl texted me asking me to bring her over food while she was with another guy. Instead of saying he was going to deliver food and get some poon like you all are saying now, you would say shes using you for food, she does not want s3x from you blah blah blah.

Literally every answer on here is mostly illogical. If you are a SSer every time theres a question its always the bad. If theres a question that involves some other guy, its always good for him and negative for the SSer. Some cult style tactics being used on here.

Its not cult response, its woman's nature. As someone said, if a woman is doing something, there is a REASON for it and she is thinking how she can BENEFIT from it. This girl wanted to cause drama and tension for her ego.

If a member came and said this girl texting him asking for food while she is with her guy, we would tell the guy how to respond accordingly so it would lead to sex.

 

[buzzin_frog]

A Woman will treat a man exactly how she feels about him

If she loves and respects him......she will treat him great

If she doesn't think too highly of him or is losing interest and attraction....she will treat him like crap and not respect him.....just like this chick is doing here.

One poster said to put her on "punishment" and to "freeze her out".....that is just a waste of time!!

A chick who doesn't really give a sh!t about you, won't really care about what "punishment" you try to give....she also won't care about what lecture you try to give telling her that she was being disrespectful....she knows that it's disrespectful, but she doesn't care, because she did it anyway....she will still make it out to be your fault and turn you into the "bad guy"....even though she is in the wrong.

Chicks will treat men this way regardless of what they look like

A lot chicks don't take relationships very seriously........and neither should you!!

You should never put all your eggs into one basket anyway......always have other chicks!!

Never allow a chick to get away with disrespecting you.......always one up the b!tch!!

But, a lot of guys just sit there and take sh!t from them....then they try to pretend to be an "alpha" by ignoring her for a couple of days (while they are still pissed off thinking about it) hoping she will come running back with higher interest and a new found respect

Sorry guys, but it doesn't work that way.....chicks who aren't into you anymore still won't give a sh!t about the "freeze out"....they will still continue to treat you the same way as they did before....or probably even worse.

This "relationship" won't last very long.....she is in control while you sit and watch all the sh!t go down....don't be too surprised after your little "freeze out" that she decides to use that against you and dumps you for being a "terrible and mean" boyfriend.

She was texting this dude to bring her some food.....which I'm sure she wants more than just food from him....and I'm pretty sure he has a sausage all ready for a take out delivery order....he might be eating out sooner than you think!!

So, this dude is taking your place....especially since she rejected your food offer...she wants it from him....and not from you....does this sound like a chick who is into you?

If you had chicks available to you.....you could avoid all this bvllsh!t altogether

Call up a chick right in front of her.....then go out and get some food with that chick.....that would make her damn head spin so fast she wouldn't know what to do

She feels it's ok to text a dude to deliver her some food.....then it's ok for you to go out and get some food with another chick

Never let a chick take control, disrespect you, or use another guy to make you feel like sh!t or inferior....always one up the b!tch!!

If she doesn't like it....then show her the door....because you shouldn't put up with any of her sh!t and disrespect

But I can tell you.....that she will think twice about ever pulling sh!t like that again

Remember, relationships don't last forever.....get as much as you can out of one particular chick.....and then move on to the next....but always have others ready to go at your disposal.

She's testing you like any woman should and would.

Grab your balls and man up when she S@#$ tests you.

Tell her you'll get some food with some other girl and that's she is wasting your time.

So, you're saying she "should" bring another dude over to bring her some food? LOL....give me a break....this is no sh!t test dude.....she is inviting this guy over for a reason.

How about he actually goes out with another chick instead of just trying to use "tough words"?

Sounds like an orbiter to me. And, by most accounts, aren't orbiters the guys that aren't having sex with the girl?

Orbiters don't bring special deliveries to the home in front of the boyfriend.....this dude is something more (or soon to be more) than just an orbiter.

We have no idea what their actual relationship is.....all we know is that she texts this guy in secret and wants him to deliver her some food....and probably something else as well

She prefers this dude over the OP....she rejects the OP.....but prefers the other dude because she specifically asks for him to come to her....and you guys think this relationship is salvageable or that a "freeze out" will work? LOL....C'mon.....get with it!!

Otherwise, she does need to know that this is not okay.

This chick knows exactly what she is doing......she is looking for a way out of the relationship....she owns this relationship and is enjoying watching the OP squirm.

 

[TenOfSpades]

Its not cult response, its woman's nature. As someone said, if a woman is doing something, there is a REASON for it and she is thinking how she can BENEFIT from it. This girl wanted to cause drama and tension for her ego.

If a member came and said this girl texting him asking for food while she is with her guy, we would tell the guy how to respond accordingly so it would lead to sex.

The first paragraph I agree with about what she is doing. The second is not correct. The majority of answers would be in a negative manner saying he has no chance at getting any. They would tell him shes just using him for food and other negative nonsense. Yet, when the guy bringing food is the anonymous individual the majority answer will be that she is trying to sleep with him. Exact same story, switched to different perspectives yet the majority answer has a swing in such a manner that it ALWAYS leads to a negative.