"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So i'm gonna see this girl I wrote a letter to

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Last week i wrote a letter to this girl i thought I wasnt gonna see ever again. I told her how I felt about her but I wasnt expecting anything to happen out of the letter on the account that I thought I wasnt gonna see her again but tomorrow we're gonna be in an editing lab editing a movie...I sit next to her. I feel sort of like an idiot for writing that letter. it wasnt AFC at all, I didnt write that I loved her or any sappy sh*t. But I now that this girl clearly knows how I feel about her I dont know how to approach the situation. Ignore her or talk to her about it? Hopefully she wont tell me to **** off but if so oh well.

what do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You wrote a like letter! :eek:!

Don't worry. Just don't bring it up to her, ACT NORMAL!!!

If she brings it up, yeah, talk about it for a few minutes, and then get off topic.
 
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someone else told me to do this....i hope this letter was not in vain.
 
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a friend on AOL.

I'm real curious as to what this girl thinks about the letter.

She could be laughing her ass off about it or maybe i touched her with it. who knows.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dimebag_Darrell said:
Last week i wrote a letter to this girl i thought I wasnt gonna see ever again.
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Then what was the point?
 
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