"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So i'm gonna see this girl I wrote a letter to

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Last week i wrote a letter to this girl i thought I wasnt gonna see ever again. I told her how I felt about her but I wasnt expecting anything to happen out of the letter on the account that I thought I wasnt gonna see her again but tomorrow we're gonna be in an editing lab editing a movie...I sit next to her. I feel sort of like an idiot for writing that letter. it wasnt AFC at all, I didnt write that I loved her or any sappy sh*t. But I now that this girl clearly knows how I feel about her I dont know how to approach the situation. Ignore her or talk to her about it? Hopefully she wont tell me to **** off but if so oh well.

what do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You wrote a like letter! :eek:!

Don't worry. Just don't bring it up to her, ACT NORMAL!!!

If she brings it up, yeah, talk about it for a few minutes, and then get off topic.
 
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someone else told me to do this....i hope this letter was not in vain.
 
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a friend on AOL.

I'm real curious as to what this girl thinks about the letter.

She could be laughing her ass off about it or maybe i touched her with it. who knows.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dimebag_Darrell said:
Last week i wrote a letter to this girl i thought I wasnt gonna see ever again.
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Then what was the point?
 
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