"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I'm Going to have sex for the first time

Canibus27

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So, here is what happened.

Last weekend, I was at home, and my sister went to a party. She called me later that night, and said my friend was here (a girl I know), and she wants me to come over, and that the chick would come and pick me up. Me, being the idiot I am, said no! MORON, YES I KNOW!

So I told my friend on Monday about what happened, and he said, YOU JUST PASSED ON SEX! So he texted her, saying I wanted to have sex, and she responded by saying "no, and said I want to be his first". She thought I was not a virgin, but I am. So she found out, and she told my friend what she would bang me, and that she was trying to last weekend (at the party). My other friend who talked to her, (without me knowing), about the same thing. Again, she said that she was going to bang me, even "promised" that she would bang me. Not this weekend, because the Datona 500 is on, but next weekend. I'm a virgin, this girl is about a 8.7//10 in my eyes.

I'm nervous as hell! And I really do not know what to do. I do not know if she likes me or anything, and I don't really like her like that either. I guess we just find each other attractive. But I think if she is serious, I will pursue. Any tips for a newb? My friend said that I should jack off like 5 times before we meet up so I do not *** too fast.

Thanks guys. I really appreciate it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jamescr73

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one of my buddies told me i would probably cvm fast too, so he recommended I get a trojan extended pleasure condom. So I bought some and kept them around for like 6 months until I met a girl to lose it to. Well combined with performance anxiety, being half drunk, and the EP condom, I lasted just over 2 hours. I couldnt cvm to save my life. dont be too worried about your first time, its probably going to suck anyway. also, its best to find a girl your not really interested in for your first time, for 2 reasons. #1 so you dont get hung up on her (happens to peoples firsts), and #2 because its probably going to suck for both of you, and she might not want to see you anymore (then refer back to #1). Good luck man.
 

War Against Betaism

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If you really don't like her that much you probably won't blow immediately. My first time some girl just literally threw herself on me and took my clothes off and I was just thinking to myself, "Damn, can't believe this is happening, I really don't like her too..." lasted 15 minutes while sober without a condom.
 

district_line

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yeah, the first time will be weird. Getting it in right, keeping it in, getting a good rhythm. Awkward stuff man. Forget all the stuff you've seen in porn.
 

Infamous J

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Prepare to be a bit disappointed. It's fun and feel good, but it's not all it's cracked up to be.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zinc64

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Don't listen to these guys. My first time was great. I guess it depends on how horny you are. ****, I was happy just to explore a naked girl's body doing anything I liked. Just go with your animal instincts and don't think...yes...don't think. Kind of like dancing.
 

Beffing

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yeah man like Zinc said, just relax and just let nature take its course/ Your inner beast will kick in haha Oh and try not to do it really drunk the first time, you'll go for hours without cvming, good for her, not so good for you.
 
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