"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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so I'm going out with a stripper now her boss wants to fuk her

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Ok so this is the scenario my girlfriend is a stripper she is like the hottest stripper in the whole club and she makes the most money.
Now she has never cheated on me been together for a good minute.
So the boss of the strip club he is like a big powerful figure around town but I'm not scare of him, my girl told me that lately he's been approaching her and telling her how he wants to go out with her and get to know her better....he knows me and he knows that I'm her man , ill be in the stripclub but I act like I don't know what's going on, he gives me free drinks, lol I use him basicly he even takes me to the vip with him.

I guess he doing that to make it seem like its all good and to throw me completely off, of what he's really trying to do with my girl.

she's been pressured too much to the point that i ma have to really confront him, cause she's kinda scare, she hasn't told me that but I can feel her vibe, and eyes don't lie, and I understand why since he is an intimidating guy if u see him and his entourage.

What should I do? My girl don't want nothing to do with him at all and to be honest we are good partying friends when I'm in the stripclub with him.

In another note other strippers at that same club are hitting on me every single time, telling me how they want to see me after the club, its 3 of them in particular, inviting me to their houses and sending me textes talking about, "I can work your pole way better" another one sent " wana come to myplace before tonight"

I like my girl and don't get me wrong these other strippers are dime pieces too but I just won't do my girl like that, not with a coworker.

I know most guys would have a major egoboost if this was happening to them but pu$$y to me its overrated I look into bigger things in females other than sex, since my girl gives me the best sex of my life in every way. Its all about where their mind is at and my girl got her brain right and she's actuall getting her degree on telecommunications while her coworkers just strip for a living and do nasty drugs.

I mean me and my girl smoke every now and then, but that's it we control it and moderate it and put our priorities first.


Some advice on this two situations?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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Plain & Simple said:
So the boss of the strip club he is like a big powerful figure around town but I'm not scare of him
First off, you should be afraid of him. I'm just saying.

Secondly, this is your girlfriend's problem, not yours. If her boss is hitting on her and she doesn't like it then she should change clubs.
 

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Nah I'm not scare I've known him since before he was "big" we go back he would never attempt nothing on me , my mom use to cook him meals and slept over her house he's like a big brother figure.

I care about my girl that's wifey and it doesn't work like that they sign a contract and she has 9 months left
 

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Plain & Simple said:
my mom use to cook him meals and slept over her
Well then get your mom to tell him to knock it off
:crackup:
 

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Catch a bus out of town to some place a few hours away from you. Now you need to buy a cheap car with cash, something that will go unnoticed and preferably dark a black car if you can find one. You will also need to buy a balaclava and a baseball bat (warning if you already own either of these do not use your own buy new ones).

Drive back into town carefully you do not want to be caught on any speed camera or pulled over otherwise the whole thing is off. Now you need to wait outside the strip club parking lot or his house it needs to be dark and private. I suggest you stake it out for a few nights to get a feel for his routine. Oh and by the way you are going to want to hide the balaclava in your car in case a cop comes by. Also it is a good idea to alter the number plates this can be done easily with some paint the same color as the letters. You could easily change an F into and E change, try to change at least three of the letters. You can avoid this if you have a fake ID though since you can just buy the car under a fake name.

Anyway wait for him to come out to his car:

- Put on the balaclava and grab the bat.

- Turn on the car and drive towards him.

- Get out of the car.

- Approach him at a fast pace you do not want to give him time to run.

- Direct the first hit to his jaw so you can break it and stop him from screaming. If you hit anywhere else first he may scream alerting others.

- Direct the next blow to one of his knees, this will prevent him from running.

- Pick him up open the trunk and throw him in along with the bat, you will also want to remove his cell phone from him.

Ok from this point you are going to want to drive to the nearest lake. Once you get there it is just a case of rolling the car straight into the lake. The water washes away any DNA evidence if they every find the body.

You are going to want to walk home from the lake, you can not catch a taxi or any form of public transport. You also can not leave your car there the day before or anything.

Extra info: Do not leave the balaclava in the car, make sure you wipe down the bat and leave the car windows open.

OR

Maybe you should just not date a stripper since they always cause problems. Be it problems that stem from them being sexually abused as children or crap like this (yes I know not all strippers are victims of sexual abuse). You say you are not scared and I understand that because I am not scared of anybody but I tell you man never underestimate people. Especially when it comes to women you do not want to underestimate to what lengths another man would go to get you out of the picture, even a close friend.

Note: Don't even consider doing what I said I am just illustrating a point.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It is your girl who you need to confront, not this guy. She is the one in the intimate relationship with you. If she is scared, you need to talk to her about what her EXACT fears are. Since you said she has a contract, losing her job is obviously not her fear so what is it? Instead of going by her eyes, talk to her and find out what is going on and what she is worried will happen if she doesn't go out with this guy.

With the guy you may want to play everything cool. He may be pulling these tricks to see if you lose your cool in order to get you off-balance or appear insecure of losing your girl. If she is with you, she is for a reason (or many). Unless she is secretly a drug addict and he is feeding her drugs there is no real reason for you to worry. If she sleeps with him, she was the wrong girl for you anyway.
 

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Wait, you're the same guy who couldn't talk to the woman sitting in your chair at work?

Fishy...
 

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Plain & Simple said:
I like my girl and don't get me wrong these other strippers are dime pieces too but I just won't do my girl like that, not with a coworker.
Wait....I'm confused. I think it was like two days ago when you were trying to talk to some other girl at your job. Hmmm
 

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Yeah its me who said that I didn't have a gf been with her for a good minute, don't mean I can't make new friends at work...

But that's a whole other movie lets not get into who I should and should not talk to and just focus on this dilema here.

She scare that she might be hurt by him and no she is not a drug addict I've known her for 14 yrs.

Why would I have to confront her? Sometimes yall make no sense, she's doing everything right telling me exacly wats going on, and by stayin true to me. So why would I confront her, cus her bos likes her....**** anywhere she goes men try to get her numba left right and center, that's out of her hands, she is staying faithful , so why should I be mad at her.

Come on now
 

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This guy is a troll, to much of a b*tch to approach a girl at work that was sitting in his chair but now he is going out with a super hot stripper. We know for a fact he had no idea what to say to the girl in the chair because he was asking us for advice. How can a guy that is to afraid to approach a girl in a perfect situation be dating a very beautiful and smart stripper?

I mean he was asking us for advice on what to say to a girl and then he backs out saying that he didn't approach because he wanted to ignore her. Now he has a girl friend who he apparently likes a lot, enough not to cheat on her even though his last post he wanted to get with another girl.

Also why the hell is he telling us about all the strippers in the club messaging him telling him they want to fu*k him. Are we meant to believe the guy who asked us for advice on what to say to a woman he wanted to sleep with has over night transformed into some ladies man that has hot strippers chasing him?

This guy is a troll.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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These are some of his threads since he is been here, either this guy leads a very interesting life, has some kind of multiple personality disorder or is a troll.

-Quick replies I'm at work live and HOT girl sat in my seat

-Im leaving the country, i just ****ed a 15 yr old im 21

-Friend jealous that the girl he tried to get got with me

-Help please! I need to pass this drug test for my new job

Going to a radio station friday, trying to get with the show host ADVICE!
 

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Woah....Excellent writing piece...

Thanks Big Dawg!


NickBe said:
Catch a bus out of town to some place a few hours away from you. Now youjust illustrating a point.
 

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I love strippers..

They've been dating a "minute" and she's already pitted this poor sap against her boss.

Very plain and simple you ask me.
 

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Troll post or not, this is an interesting mental exercise. If this were happening, I would say the guy is treating you good to throw you off. Then he is probably sending the other strippers after you so that if the partying doesn't distract you, the other strippers would tell your girl how you cheated so you two would break up. My plan would be to talk things out with your girl, go up there only to see her perform, and don't accept anything "free" from the owner.
 

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@Plain & Simple

I wouldnt worry about that...I've dated strippers and the boss will always wanna piece of his workers and he does get a piece from the trifflin broads...The ones that be thinking if I sleep with him I can work any schedule I want or I can take off from work or whatever and then the boss usually be trickin on them, spending money for sex. If your girl has her head on straight and just go in and make $$ and comes out just fall back from it. I wouldnt sweat unless your girl give up hints of cheating but a man can tell, a good man that can see thru the lies...

I been there with the co-workers...I have had some hit me on myspace and wanted me to come over, offer me dinner, and then sex afterwards the whole nine...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That hor is cheating on you. sorry sir, cut her loose for a girl with more respect

if she's so scared then why doesn't she switch clubs? oh oh oh I know, cuz she's sucking this dudes wang!
that's her contract. she sucks his wang and she won't be fired
 

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Not only is this a troll post, it's also two years old. I wonder what didn't happen?
 
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