So.... I'm going bald

[PMPed]

It wasn't too long ago that I had a full head of amazing hair (okay maybe a little while ago 5-10 years lol). But my hair has slowly been escaping. my forehead is much larger. the hair on top is very thin. and I have significant balding on the crown. It would be classified as a norwood 3v (if you're into that sort of thing). Up to this point, I've been hanging on.. Convincing myself that it's not that bad. hahaha. But I have noticed a bit of a hit in my dating life, which I think is derived partially from the decline of my hairline, but also from the decline of my confidence as it's always in the back of my head. I went as far with this as to start using hair fibers to make it look thicker. Okay, the hair fibers work pretty good. But it's all fun and games until I'm banging some chick in my bed and she starts grabbing my hair with a look of surprise across her face (yes it's fake bytch haha).

Anyway, I have concluded to start growing my beard out rather than clean shaven. and slowly cutting my hair shorter and shorter over the next one to two months as not to scare the shyt out of myself when I look in the mirror (contrast principle). Start tanning so that the top of my head is tanned. And working out five times a week (because why not?). Until I get to the point where I have a full beard and no hair on the top of my head. Wish me luck because I'm frickin doing this.

 

[Robert28]

Tell them hoes to leave your weave alone! “***** don’t pull on the weave!”. Be careful with that tanning stuff, srsly. F getting skin cancer to impress a broad.

 

[PMPed]

Tell them hoes to leave your weave alone! “***** don’t pull on the weave!”. Be careful with that tanning stuff, srsly. F getting skin cancer to impress a broad.

Hahaha weave

 

[Medina]

Hair transplant bro

You're crazy to not consider it in 2019

The world is getting more and more superficial

This will not change

In Turkey a quality hair transplant is only 4 to 5 k

It's a no brainer if you want to "stay in the game"

 

[MountainSlide]

Hair transplant bro

You're crazy to not consider it in 2019

The world is getting more and more superficial

This will not change

In Turkey a quality hair transplant is only 4 to 5 k

It's a no brainer if you want to "stay in the game"

What a cuck response

 

[Medina]

What a cuck response

Haha you picked a bad day for name calling I been with 2 women today

Who's the cuck now? Why don't you offer an opinion on the thread or fvck off

 

[Alvafe]

gonna tell you what I told my mom who love to bug me with useless things like these and I started showing some white hair, who cares?

you should not care, it not something you can change, even IF you did a hair transplant, that would only mean you care about the opnion of others, work on things you can change, going to work out is something good, you are working on what you can change

 

[MountainSlide]

Haha you picked a bad day for name calling I been with 2 women today

Who's the cuck now? Why don't you offer an opinion on the thread or fvck off

I apologize for hurting your delicate feelings. I personally wouldn’t be bragging about hitting up two girls in the same day unless.... it was at the same time. Then props.

 

[GrowingPains]

Haha you picked a bad day for name calling I been with 2 women today

Who's the cuck now? Why don't you offer an opinion on the thread or fvck off

Aren't you married?

 

[Spaz]

Aren't you married?

A man can be married and drink tea with 5 different women, it's not a problem.

Fvcking them is something entirely different.

 

[GrowingPains]

A man can be married and drink tea with 5 different women, it's not a problem.

Fvcking them is something entirely different.

Sure. Depends on what 'been with' means in his post.

 

[Spaz]

Sure. Depends on what 'been with' means in his post.

If its drinking tea or just being in the presence of 2 women and then considering it a highlight of his day then it's really demeaning on one's masculinity.

But if it's fvcking 2 women at once, he deserves praise.

 

[Spaz]

It wasn't too long ago that I had a full head of amazing hair (okay maybe a little while ago 5-10 years lol). But my hair has slowly been escaping. my forehead is much larger. the hair on top is very thin. and I have significant balding on the crown. It would be classified as a norwood 3v (if you're into that sort of thing). Up to this point, I've been hanging on.. Convincing myself that it's not that bad. hahaha. But I have noticed a bit of a hit in my dating life, which I think is derived partially from the decline of my hairline, but also from the decline of my confidence as it's always in the back of my head. I went as far with this as to start using hair fibers to make it look thicker. Okay, the hair fibers work pretty good. But it's all fun and games until I'm banging some chick in my bed and she starts grabbing my hair with a look of surprise across her face (yes it's fake bytch haha).

Anyway, I have concluded to start growing my beard out rather than clean shaven. and slowly cutting my hair shorter and shorter over the next one to two months as not to scare the shyt out of myself when I look in the mirror (contrast principle). Start tanning so that the top of my head is tanned. And working out five times a week (because why not?). Until I get to the point where I have a full beard and no hair on the top of my head. Wish me luck because I'm frickin doing this.

Men who has a strong persona can pull it off and even gain from being bald.

Ownage.

 

[Serenity]

Meh, I see guys in total contradiction of such petty fears all the time. They haven't lost any of their confidence though, honestly I don't think they pay any mind at all to their obvious lack of hair. Just like it took me forever to realize that my very obvious crooked front tooth would probably be a massive insecurity if someone other than me had it. I never thought about it, one I realized it and by then I just laughed and proceeded to forget my "handicap".

Almost NOTHING is worse than being insecure. I see fat guys, balding guys and many kinds of guys I would consider incel material who seem to have no trouble at all attracting beautiful women. Then I come to this forum and see guys who turn into an insecure mess over it, desperately wasting time and money on sh!t that won't give THAT much of a boost to attractiveness. If anything I bet it's the accompanying confidence that makes the difference.

I think it's overall the wrong approach to physical defects. So much is done basically for women who at the end of the day would have taken the same looking guy or worse, but with his confidence intact.

Men overstate the importance of looks. We think women are attracted to men in the same way we're attracted to women, by going for physical attributes. Before anyone says "but my muscles has made a difference" I'll say yes, not all women are the same and some obviously do go for physical attributes, but looking like a fvcking Greek God isn't a requirement to attract a decent amount of women.

 

[Medina]

OP has a problem with hairloss here. I'm not going into detail about my sex life on his thread

This forum has a problem with keyboard warriors not answering questions or offering any solutions to real problems

 

[Kotaix]

I'm more or less in the same boat. but without the crown balding. For a while I let it consume my mind and felt bad for myself until I realized I was being a little *****. Ironically it's one of the best things that has happened to me from the perspective of accepting that life is short and you have to live the now, I'm way more confident now than I ever was. I think this happens to all men who go bald, and to cancer patients in a much harder way. It's the process of grieving and accepting your mortality, and it eventually happens to everyone.

The decline in your dating life is because you feel self-conscious about it and women pick up on it, not because you're less attractive. Patrick stewart lost his hair at around 18 and went on to define bald as sexy for a generation when he played captain picard on star trek. Why? Because Picard is the absolute definition of an Alpha male.

Another good example is my second cousin. She's hit the wall a bit in her mid 40s, but she's stunningly beautiful and her current bf looks like Larry from the three stooges. Huge forehead and wild hair that sticks out everywhere. He doesn't give a single fvck.

If you're thinking of shaving your head, just do it man. Rip off the bandaid and shave your head. I recommend watching Rich Cooper's vid on the subject. Do NOT get hair implants, the process scars the back of your head up when they take the donor folicles and if you ever do decide to shave your head after getting it done, you'll end up showing off the scars. You can take that money and spend it on way more meaningful stuff than your looks. Superficiality is for women.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

OP has a problem with hairloss here. I'm not going into detail about my sex life on his thread

This forum has a problem with keyboard warriors not answering questions or offering any solutions to real problems

Agreed. Dont take advice from stupid full heads. White guys with shaved head=cancer patient. Only thing worse than baldceling is being a manlet.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

hairloss?

shave it all, hit the gym hard (brah), take roids, tattos, get tan and grow beard = problem solved

also BE YOURSELF (but change everything, lol)

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

It's the main contradiction in the fullheads' reasoning: they'll tell you it's not a big deal and that it's just hair, then they'll tell you to make all these changes (shave, grow a beard, tan, muscles, clothes, hats, confidence).

If it truly didn't matter at all, you could just... remain the same in every area, but with a horseshoe.

 

[Mike32ct]

Only thing worse than baldceling is being a manlet.

In a competition between a 5’7” full hair dude vs a 5’11” dude with a big bald spot, I would bet the next round of drinks on the full hair shorter guy.

TLDR: Balding guys often get mogged by shorter full hair dudes.