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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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So if you can't drive...

Black Casanova

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My parents are some of those fanatic Christians, so they won't take me to any dates where I would be alone iwth a chick, and I wont be able to drive for another year. I dont live close enough to entertainment to walk, so what would be some good things to suggest doing wiht a girl?


Bowling or something?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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McKindley

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How old are you? I'm assuming your about 15ish?

You could always join some sort of groups at school that would entail you spending a lot of time with girls. Since you're a year away from being able to drive that limits things. You're parents probably just don't want you hooking up with girls this young. Which is fine.

Most kids that can't drive do something like getting their parents to drive them to a movie with a guy friend, and meet up with girls you want to see there. But that was more the middle school way of doing it. If you actually want to go on a real "date" with a girl and you can't drive, she can't drive, and your parents won't do it, I'd say just wait until you can drive.

But its been a long time since I've been in that situation. maybe I'm missing some of the tricks people used to do.

Maybe you could get a moped? JK
 

chill

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you could do a coffie date, or go on a group date with another person driving and not tell your parents its a date
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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penkitten

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bowling movies mall
any parks
go cart racing is fun
putt putt
arcade even
any local bands in town?

chicks like fun too
 
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