"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So if you can't drive...

Black Casanova

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My parents are some of those fanatic Christians, so they won't take me to any dates where I would be alone iwth a chick, and I wont be able to drive for another year. I dont live close enough to entertainment to walk, so what would be some good things to suggest doing wiht a girl?


Bowling or something?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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McKindley

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How old are you? I'm assuming your about 15ish?

You could always join some sort of groups at school that would entail you spending a lot of time with girls. Since you're a year away from being able to drive that limits things. You're parents probably just don't want you hooking up with girls this young. Which is fine.

Most kids that can't drive do something like getting their parents to drive them to a movie with a guy friend, and meet up with girls you want to see there. But that was more the middle school way of doing it. If you actually want to go on a real "date" with a girl and you can't drive, she can't drive, and your parents won't do it, I'd say just wait until you can drive.

But its been a long time since I've been in that situation. maybe I'm missing some of the tricks people used to do.

Maybe you could get a moped? JK
 

chill

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you could do a coffie date, or go on a group date with another person driving and not tell your parents its a date
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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bowling movies mall
any parks
go cart racing is fun
putt putt
arcade even
any local bands in town?

chicks like fun too
 
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