"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So if I'm ready to give up?

GuitarPlayer

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Okay, here's the deal:

Who will train me personally in the flesh? Mystery? Gunwitch? Neal Strauss? David DeAngelo? I've read numerous e-books, this site, mASF, you name it.

Maybe I'm just dense or something. I'm reading The Game by Neal Strauss right now. I'm amazed at how these guys took AFC's and gave them massive pickup power.

I need this and it's important to me. Reading all of these things has helped, but I'm the type of person who needs to learn by doing, not reading.

If any of the "famous" PUA's read this, please PM me for details or with an offer.

I'm located in the Southeast.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GuitarOnFire

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It has to come from within. I've read hundreds of the posts here, and all that knowledge is worthless without experience. More experience will allow you to /read the situation better/ and make you act more boldly.

One of my closest friends has been through the house of hard knocks and ploughs through girlfriends. He doesn't know about sosuave.com, and that is why his relationships last for a few months at the very most.

Right now, I'm working on getting the experience with women, since I am too comfortable with being single and improving solo. :D
 

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I know a guy who made out with six women last night and is depressed.

You should know by reading The Game that this isn't what you want.

It took me a lot of reading a lot of different kinds of books and buying a lot of David D products and a lot of thinking and taking notes and being alert in social situations and trying new things to really, really get it.

There's no magic pill. But certainly, you're right, reading must be balanace with doing-- and thinking!
 

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Hey Man,
It sounds like you have a lot of knowledge and not enough experiance, the problem with this is you can't flow with interactions with women, you don't need a guru you need to go out and try and meet women. I wont lie the first couple of times you might get shut down, but when you walk away from the interaction and think about what happened and where you could fix it up. Become your own man, do not become a copy of one of the guru's. Having said that yes I have read a lot of the books and I have some of David D's material but with out the experiance it means nothing, go out and meet some women then go back and re-read the books.
Good Luck
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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