"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I went to the mall today...

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Sexual said:
Btw, whyyyyy?? Don't limit yourself on saying no blackie only whitie. Grocery stores are a great idea, but are there any near colleges or student housing in your area? Any store or mall is great. I absolutely LOVE some types of black chicks, usually the lighter ones, but I see one (around my area) every now and then that no man could turn down. Have you seen Aaleigha (sp?) or chicks like in the *****cat dolls? They're not so rare as you'd think.
When approaching I really don't care what she is, but I'm saying I'm mostly only attracted to white and asian girls, meaning, yes I can be attracted to black girls and girls other races sometimes, but I'm mostly attracted to white and asian girls because they are my preference. That's why I mostly approach white girls, their my preference. I don't prefer black chicks so I generally don't approach them as much. Giovanni was pretty stupid to bring it up in the first place. Even more stupid is his attempt to call me racist when am infact black and one of my best buds, as well as a lot of my friends are black. Come to think of it, I hardly hang out with white people so am I racist against whites now idiot? Oh wait , I like white girls, so how can I be racist? Yeah, you're pretty dumb.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Giovanni Casanova said:
Stop going to the mall on Martin Luther King Blvd.

A better bet for you would be the mall with the giant neon sign that says, "Whitey McWhite-White's Krackerlicious House of White Mall Stores For White People".
:crackup:

Quit your day job!
 

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ElStud said:
Shush, you've been proven wrong. I'd waste more time replying to that post and proving you even more wrong, but I don't see the worth. That post of yours is made up of ignorance.
Actually, you got pizz-owned in Gio's post, oreo. Wait, I can't call you that. You have black friends. :rolleyes:
 

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ban him already, mods!

i stopped posting in his HS forum threads and i stopped riling him up... everyone else jumped the wagon when i did... but now no one in the HS forum knows hes a troll, or just an idiot.

that's why he comes here now to get attention.

first, it isn't a racist topic... but it's still a touchy subject, and he knows it!

he purposefully brings up touchy subjects up so someone will get a bit offended... or flame-baits himself with self-pity... or asks why he's never successful even if he does "try".
 

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I don't know, even though I'm black I'm just not attracted to black chicks.
hahaha, thats makes you a typical black guy :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wow... I'm going to quote Oakraiderz saying "No one cares, go play tetris or something".
 
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All black mall? Are you in Africa? Are you in an all black city, state, nation, island, continent?? A black man looking for a white woman? Good luck kid - you just narrowed your search to "minimal"!!!
 

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All black mall? Are you in Africa? Are you in an all black city, state, nation, island, continent?? A black man looking for a white woman? Good luck kid - you just narrowed your search to "minimal"!!!
Man you guys are racist, what are you living in the integrated 1950's or something? I hope you were being sarcastic.
 

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Guys, who the fvck cares what he prefers? None of you seem to have picked out the problem with this whole thread.

ElStud said:
Well I went to the mall today and didn't approach any girls, mostly because there weren't many girls that were my type there.
Come on man, that is one lousy excuse. "Your type"? Who cares? You are there to practice game, run it on everyone, it doesn't matter if she is your type or not.

A lot of guys in the community give themselves a lot of excuses, and if you have read my motivation article, you'd know I really resent using excuses, and can smell one a mile off.

Be honest to yourself, it wasn't that they weren't your type, it was that you got approach anxiety and wanted some reason to soften the guilt.

Run game on everyone.

When I think up of a new story, or a routine, I know that it would be better to use it later on in the set, but I need to get this particular routine up to speed, I'll open with it if I have to. I'm willing to risk looking like an idiot and opening with a 3 minute routine, instead of brushing it off and saying "Nah, this'll work better later on in a set, I'll just practice it when I get a decent set". Who knows? That may be never.

The whole point is not to give yourself any excuses, I'm sure you can open black girls, you just gave yourself an excuse not to. It's not like by opening them you would have them clinging around you for the next week, it's all for practice!

Black girls, white girls, asian girls, hot girls, ugly girls, whatever. Run game, if you aren't attracted to them, approach for the sole reason of approaching, and improving your game.
 

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I know dude I can approach black girls. I'm not using that as an excuse, I'm just more overly atracted to white girls. I can game black girls sure, but unless she's really good looking or something there probably won't be any attraction. And I have been gaming everyone, but if I'm going to an all black mall I can only game black girls. And if I go to a mostly white mall does that make me racist? No I just like white chicks a lot, nothing wrong with that, but if I do see a girl of another race, I will approach. Plus if it was truly "ARYAN" why would they let a black guy in? Yeah you're dumb Giovanni. Overall I just like diversity, not all one race of chicks. If I was to go to a more diverse mall, I COULD game everyone. Get it? I can game black girls, but I'm mostly attracted to other races. Racism? No, first of all I'm black, second of all, a lot of black girls talk to me at school, third of all most of the people I hang with are black. I'm simply restating what I've already said. And trust me, I already approach a lot of girls I'm not really attracted to.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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