"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I went to the mall today...

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Well I went to the mall today and didn't approach any girls, mostly because there weren't many girls that were my type there. This particular mall is great if you love black chicks, but after walking around there for like an hour and 30 minutes, I can tell you that it is next to impossible to find any white women(Or white people in general or people of any other race than black) hanging around this mall. And that's a bad thing, because white women are my type and they're what I mostly approach. I don't know, even though I'm black I'm just not attracted to black chicks. So for my first time sarging at a mall, that went pretty bad. What I'm going to do is find a more diverse mall or find a mall with mostly white chicks. I know of another mall that mostly has white chicks, which'll be good for me and I'm thinking about sarging up there on Saturday.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, okay. Thanks for sharing.
 

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wouldnt you have better luck at the grocery store? i mean, white women in your area have to eat, right?
 

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I want those 20 seconds of my life I spent reading this back.
 

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penkitten said:
wouldnt you have better luck at the grocery store? i mean, white women in your area have to eat, right?
Doesn't even have to be white people, could be Asian or Middle Eastern. I'm just not attracted to black girls. I can't help that I naturally prefer white girls, that's just what I'm attracted to. Plus grocery, ooh.. I'm sorry I meant white women my age and I know I'll find a lot of white women or women of any race if I find the right mall.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ElStud said:
Doesn't even have to be white people, could be Asian or Middle Eastern. I'm just not attracted to black girls. I can't help that I naturally prefer white girls, that's just what I'm attracted to.
Stop going to the mall on Martin Luther King Blvd.

A better bet for you would be the mall with the giant neon sign that says, "Whitey McWhite-White's Krackerlicious House of White Mall Stores For White People".
 

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Stop going to the mall on Martin Luther King Blvd.

A better bet for you would be the mall with the giant neon sign that says, "Whitey McWhite-White's Krackerlicious House of White Mall Stores For White People".
Okay don't turn this into a racist discussion here. I prefer white girls sexually, it's simple. Everyone has there preferences. Hell, some people prefer Middle Eastern girls, some people prefer Asian girls, some people prefer black girls, some people prefer ass over boobs, it's all a matter of what you're attracted to.
 

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ElStud said:
Okay don't turn this into a racist discussion here. I prefer white girls sexually, it's simple. Everyone has there preferences. Hell, some people prefer Middle Eastern girls, some people prefer Asian girls, some people prefer black girls, some people prefer ass over boobs, it's all a matter of what you're attracted to.
I didn't make it racial, you made it racial when you said, "I'm not attracted to black chicks". Are you entitled to that opinion? Sure, but don't pretend you weren't being racial from the outset.

I'm not sure what your point of posting this thread was to begin with. The summary of your post is, "I went to the mall looking for chicks. But the only chicks that I saw were colored chicks. I don't like me no colored chicks. I guess next time I go out I will try to avoid the Negro congregating places. I'm thinking of going to an Aryan mall on Saturday. The end."
 

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That's not racial. "I'm not attracted to black chicks" I'm just not attracted to black chicks, I was born that way, I can't magically make myself attracted to a particular race of girls. And Aryan mall? I said I was looking for a more diverse mall, jackass. And besides, I have a preference for white chicks, so it would make sense to go to a mall with mostly white chicks. You know what dude, just shut up, you're turning this into something it's not. Read. So I'm not attracted to every race of chicks therefore I'm racist? Wow, get your head out of there man. Besides, I'm black idiot, why would I be racist against my own race? Try again. To add to that I have several black friends, so I think you'd better just back off now before you make yourself look dumber just because you misinterpreted the post.

You sir are a dumbass, please refrain from posting.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I love black chicks, the ones with good bodies not the fat ones. Some black chicks have just as much of an inner light that I go after than a lot of whites. If she's got a great smile and comes from a decent family, I'd have sex with a black chick, yeah. It's all in the body language or look for me really.
 

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I love black chicks, the ones with good bodies not the fat ones. Some black chicks have just as much of an inner light that I go after than a lot of whites. If she's got a great smile and comes from a decent family, I'd have sex with a black chick, yeah. It's all in the body language or look for me really.
See like I said everyone has their own preference. You prefer black chicks, but that doesn't make you racist against every other race of girls just because they're not you're type. Yeah I think Giovanni is the real racist here for even bringing it up.
 

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ElStud said:
That's not racial. "I'm not attracted to black chicks"
Your whole thread is about how you don't prefer one race over others. That's racial. I didn't say that's RACIST -- learn to read. Your whole thread is RACIAL.

And Aryan mall? I said I was looking for a more diverse mall, jackass.
Yeah, right before you said:

or find a mall with mostly white chicks. I know of another mall that mostly has white chicks, which'll be good for me
So what you want is a mall with Caucasians, right? Am I wrong here, or is what you wrote not what you really, really meant?


You know what dude, just shut up, you're turning this into something it's not.
Really? Wow, I'm really sorry about that. What is the something that is what "it's not" isn't? In other words, what the f*ck is this thread for, because here's an outline of your original post:

(1) I went to the mall
(2) There were only a bunch of black girls there
(3) I don't like black girls
(4) Maybe next time I can go to a mall with white girls
(5) Saturday I will go to a mall with white girls



Read. So I'm not attracted to every race of chicks therefore I'm racist?
You read, and then come back when you find where I supposedly said that.


Besides, I'm black idiot, why would I be racist against my own race? Try again. To add to that I have several black friends, so I think you'd better just back off now.
"Some of my best friends are black"? Really, that's the tired-ass cliche you're gonna use here? If you were truly black, you would see the irony in that statement.

Is this your website? http://www.blackpeopleloveus.com/
 

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Shush, you've been proven wrong. I'd waste more time replying to that post and proving you even more wrong, but I don't see the worth. That post of yours is made up of ignorance.
 

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Giovanni Casanova said:
I didn't make it racial, you made it racial when you said, "I'm not attracted to black chicks". Are you entitled to that opinion? Sure, but don't pretend you weren't being racial from the outset.

I'm not sure what your point of posting this thread was to begin with. The summary of your post is, "I went to the mall looking for chicks. But the only chicks that I saw were colored chicks. I don't like me no colored chicks. I guess next time I go out I will try to avoid the Negro congregating places. I'm thinking of going to an Aryan mall on Saturday. The end."
Must find... other posts... by Giovanni... lmao. I think I'm getting a headache and my back kind of hurts from slouching and laughing. Time to do something else. Haha, you do need to stop posting you wiseass, hahaha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Okay, go to shush then.

Have fun at the white mall this weekend.
 

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Okay, go to shush then.

Have fun at the white mall this weekend.
I will have fun at a diverse mall this weekend or hey, I might go to a mostly white mall, I love white chicks so it only benefits me. I hear the malls down in Chinatown are pretty good too. You know you're dumb when you try to tell someone else what race they are, yes I'm talking about you.
 

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Well I went to the mall today and didn't approach any girls, mostly because there weren't many girls that were my type there. This particular mall is great if you love black chicks, but after walking around there for like an hour and 30 minutes, I can tell you that it is next to impossible to find any white women(Or white people in general or people of any other race than black) hanging around this mall. And that's a bad thing, because white women are my type and they're what I mostly approach. I don't know, even though I'm black I'm just not attracted to black chicks. So for my first time sarging at a mall, that went pretty bad. What I'm going to do is find a more diverse mall or find a mall with mostly white chicks. I know of another mall that mostly has white chicks, which'll be good for me and I'm thinking about sarging up there on Saturday.
Btw, whyyyyy?? Don't limit yourself on saying no blackie only whitie. Grocery stores are a great idea, but are there any near colleges or student housing in your area? Any store or mall is great. I absolutely LOVE some types of black chicks, usually the lighter ones, but I see one (around my area) every now and then that no man could turn down. Have you seen Aaleigha (sp?) or chicks like in the *****cat dolls? They're not so rare as you'd think.
 

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No one cares, go play tetris or something.
 

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ElStud said:
I will have fun at a diverse mall this weekend or hey, I might go to a mostly white mall, I love white chicks so it only benefits me. I hear the malls down in Chinatown are pretty good too. You know you're dumb when you try to tell someone else what race they are, yes I'm talking about you.
I thought you went to shush.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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