"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so i went against my gut

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Ok....so was planning to meet my girl up and she says, cool but let's meet up earlier. I say good deal. I was gonna be up there early anyways to handle some business so I was going to be there early anyways......
At that point, I knew I had fvcked up her world or messed up whatever hoop she thought I was jumping through because I have asked 3 times for her to send me a text of her workplace so I could plan my route/day.

I feel like if I kept all those details to myself, she wouldn'tbe acting like this. I'm done talking to her tonight. I think she might be butt hurt that its not like a special thing that I'm doing for her, showing up early, but I was already there. It will be the last time I'm seeing her as she is moving away for the semester at college.
Lesson learned. Cest la vie....
Any thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moving away to college? She's college-aged and out of your sight? That's guaranteed worry and stress.
 
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Always be a little late

Send a text 5 mins before you are supposed to meet. "I'll be a bit late, *somebull****excuse*"
 
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If you think shes upset about you being there conveniently early for you're own stuff then there's deeper problems abrewing... like her moving away to collage
 
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I mean....I like to keep plates in different states....it has paid off. I never really end things with them, so when they want the Sideways Experience again, I'm only a ticket away
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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