1.Technology is to be used as a method to inform, not to be informed, if at all.
Let me use this analogy. Say you go to the gym and you are there or what not and you see this chick there who goes to the gym everyday and you develop a mini crush on her. Bro I’ve been there lol. say this chick’s name is Julie.. she’s in peak condition, young 20’s, very pleasant always smiling, an unbelievable body, and you start to piece together the rest of the **** about Julie in your mind. Maybe you see a book she’s reading so you imagine what type of books she likes or you catch her eating subway so you imagine what type of foods she likes or you see her in non gym clothes so you imagine what she dresses like outside of the gym. You start to piece together this (imaginary) picture of Julie.
Now some are quick to say that’s oneitis, and yes this is true to some extent but that’s not the point I’m trying to make in this particular sub section. The point I’m trying to make is that.. lol, the information you piece together is never ****ty information. You don’t imagine she has ****ty credit or can’t cook or snores or can’t dance or cant’ dress or is currently ****ing 3 different guys or she has ****ty tastes in men. But this is the type of **** you find out when you friend someone on facebook or follow someone on twitter. You replace all the good imaginary **** with ****ty **** lol.
But more importantly than that, because women had ****ty **** 50 years ago women did not just start becoming ****ty now, is that you replace the ****ty **** in a woman at a faster rate than you can verify the good **** about a woman therefore everyone is now ****ty. It’s the dating equivalent to paralysis by analysis.
My wife does not have a facebook page, thank god lol, she hates the **** as much as I do. but if she did, I can imagine what it would look like and I’m quite sure that I would have been turned off by it. And this is the love of my life. You know how turned off I would have been if I could have VERIFED that she was going on dates with 2 other dudes when I met her. I mean I’m not stupid I had a clue she’s hot and classy and was always busy but it’s another thing to see messages and **** and just get thoughts running my head. But I found this out after about a month of dating, the day she picked me up from the airport because she could not wait to see me and I found out she cancelled a date with someone else to come see me. That puts it all in another perspective now doesn’t it?
In short what I am trying to say is the less information you have about your girl’s activates the more effective your game is going to be because you aren’t’ stuck playing defense. Going back to my wife it was the sole fact that I honestly was too busy playing offense to give a **** if she was dating anyone else or not that eventually won the game.
Don’t’ use technology to follow broads and ****. Don’t’ follow any female. I have a twitter account though I use it quite sparingly , and an ex of mine has a twitter account and we follow each other because we are both big horse racing fans so even though we don’t’ date I’m interested to see what she has to say about races from time to time.. half her ****ing posts are about dates she went on or how great a time she had the other night, etc.
On the other hand, most guys are so busy playing defense, that they do not take the time to take advantage of the 2013 woman’s fatal flaw… women have to know everything. Something else I found out a few years ago by trial and error is that women, are a LOT more observant than men are as far as picking up signs and **** like that in dating. I would do **** like buy a cheap purse and put **** in it lol and leave it under my bathroom sink knowing good and well sooner or later she was going to go through it. Women do that **** they are curious. Or go meet a woman I have been on a few dates with dressed ot the 9 and tell her I have somewhere to go afterwards and not tell them were. That will rack a woman’s brain. The trick is to not come off as a player but at the same time give them the hint of competition.
There is not a better avenue to do this than with facebook / twitter and most guys don’t’ have a clue how to do this . post **** about the great meal you had last night at the restaurant how you loved desert. Man I went to a great play last night .. lol guys don’t go to plays by themselves (they really don’t) she will know you are taking a broad to a play. Talk about how you are going tango dancing.. guys don’t’ tango dance with guys. Make the broad sense she has company but don’t come off as a player. Don’t post pictures of broad’s all on your **** that’s tactless. Don’t commit to anyone on facebook. Use facebook and **** as nothing more as an avenue to allow broads a selective window into your life of **** that you want them to see.
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