"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so i was gonna buy shorts..

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i actually like the look the model is pulling off. I want that white shirt
 
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i actually like the look the model is pulling off. I want that white shirt

You mean the low-cut blouse? Are you going to pick up a man purse as well?
 

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how about that belt and..... the black tank top.. i thought it was a chick for sure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Espi said:
Just wear what you like...don't ask other mens' opinions about style...if you're gonna ask anybody what to wear, ask women, preferably very attractive women.

For summer wear, I personally prefer sporting a white linen long-sleeve button down shirt (button-downed to the mid chest level and the sleeves rolled to mid-wrist), navy-blue khaki shorts, and Cole Haan black sandals--a la Matthew McConaughey in Failure to Launch. That's the kind of summer wear that I notice makes women take notice of me.
That's almost the exact outfit I'm planning on buying here soon except with reversed colors. White (or creme) linen pants and a navy short-sleeve button down with black sandals.

I also wanted a Tag Heuer Monaco but I'm a bit underfunded :D
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
You mean the low-cut blouse? Are you going to pick up a man purse as well?
Yeah i might actually. The design itself is pretty nice.
 
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