So... I think I may have convinced my girlfriend to try anal

[Brighty]

:cheer:

Now that that's out of the way, I'm wondering if you guys have any tips or past experiences on warming her up or preparing for anal. She's never done anal before and she's going to be really tight; is it going to take a few sessions of just fingering her and slowly getting her ass looser before moving on to me sticking it in? I'm completely new to this, so any advice, pitfalls to avoid, and undoubtedly any funny stories you guys have had about past experiences would be appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

P.S. On a completely unrelated note, anyone have any suggestions on how to suppress her gag reflex? Just.. for.. uh... purely scientific purposes. Yeah, she's kind of kinky and wants to try deepthroating and I'm more than happy to oblidge.

 

[DavenJuan]

Originally posted by brighty
Now that that's out of the way, I'm wondering if you guys have any tips or past experiences on warming her up or preparing for anal. She's never done anal before and she's going to be really tight; is it going to take a few sessions of just fingering her and slowly getting her ass looser before moving on to me sticking it in? I'm completely new to this, so any advice, pitfalls to avoid, and undoubtedly any funny stories you guys have had about past experiences would be appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

P.S. On a completely unrelated note, anyone have any suggestions on how to suppress her gag reflex? Just.. for.. uh... purely scientific purposes. Yeah, she's kind of kinky and wants to try deepthroating and I'm more than happy to oblidge.

here ya go...
http://www.nextlevelgame.net/showthread.php?t=2665

 

[Brighty]

here ya go...
http://www.nextlevelgame.net/showthread.php?t=2665

Well that doesn't really help too much, as he doesn't really go into detail at all.

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Just to add to what PHAT Rabbot said,

If you can get her to drink a couple glasses of wine or something.

Go down on her and use your finger on her bum. Take it slow and make the biggest movement everytime she's about to ograsm. This way you can loosen it up and she will also relax (mentally and physically) more (which is important.)

 

[SmoothTalker]

Congrats I guess, though personally I found anal to not even remotely live up to the hype. Still fun to try though.


Anyway I'll let greater experts answer that part.

As for gag reflex, there's a couple of tricks.
1) Pharmacies sell sprays and lozenges that numb the throat. They're intended for people with sore throats, but have other uses. The brand an ex used to pretty great effect is Cepacol. Just have her aim it at the back of her throat, spray, and then wait a couple of minutes for it to absorb and wash away with spit so that not too much is left to numb you up also. Be careful with this though, the numbness can be pretty complete, so don't get carried away and hurt her, or let her hurt herself.

2) There are various pressure points that seem to help some people suppress their gag reflex. Two I know of that you can have her try is wrapping the thumb of one hand in the other hand and squeezing very hard. The other is done by sort of closing your hand (like a fist but without curling your fingers. Then wrap your thumb over the index and under the middle finger, and again, squeeze. These don't work for everyone though, so have her test it out before diving in.

3) The best way long term is just practice though. Anybody can learn to suppress it with consistent practice, just have her brush her tongue further and further up whenever she brushes her teeth. Also when starting out, don't play right after big meals.

 

[trent81]

This thread is useless without pictures.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Watch some Max Hardcore

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Hog-spit and ''slow and gradual''

 

[Prodigy746]

am i the only on that finds anal grose... even thinking about it makes me sick...sticking my fingers in there than later on having to eat w them... eww ...ill stick to vagina thanks.