so i think i got the Dj thing...

[silkkster]

so i think i have arrived at least to the point of understanding how this all works... i find myself being able to talk to any random woman i see, with full confidence, even the real hotties i have no problem... and about 90% of the time i can see that they want me to ask for the number.. but for some reason... i dont... after i say see ya i walk away and say to myself i should have asked for her number.. i dont have the fear of rejection (although i bet you think i do lol)... but i need to get my **** into gear.. could you all give me some tips on how to keep focused on getting those digits...or something lol... or just comment on what i said
thnx

 

[Fenderules]

simple, expect like your not going to get them. in other words prepare for the worst and try to get rejected. That way you will get them! if you try to get the digits, you dont get them.

 

[buckwheat18]

the only thing i can tell you man is, "regret" you seem to have it like you mentioned, i'm even scared to say that word i'm not lying. I find that regret laughs in my face, i can't forget it either no matter how hard I try. In all honesty I would rather ask for a girls number and be turned down then not ask when I had that opportunity. Atleast I would know that 1. I tried 2. she isn't interested, her loss, so find someone who is.

 

[xhikari]

well try askin the number then next time, at least u won't away with regrets and even if u get rejected...it's a like a burden thrown off.
i still regret from this situation which happened last week when a real hot lookin girl at the train station kept lookin at me and my wingman told me to try to talk to her. when the train came she still came on to stand beside me when we were boardin it, somehow she got in and me and my friend could not as it was full, at that part she smiled, real sweet smile, obvious sign and i regretted.....still regret but well it happens....i ain't gonna miss such stuff anymore
so well when u get to talk to those women out there..just go for the number man...u won't have regrets
c ya

 

[spidersense]

Originally posted by buckwheat18
the only thing i can tell you man is, "regret" you seem to have it like you mentioned, i'm even scared to say that word i'm not lying. I find that regret laughs in my face, i can't forget it either no matter how hard I try. In all honesty I would rather ask for a girls number and be turned down then not ask when I had that opportunity. Atleast I would know that 1. I tried 2. she isn't interested, her loss, so find someone who is.

regret is a major word for me... that's what made me start talking to women. I was at a gas station one day and there was this cuttie pumping gas on the pump I needed(the gas staion only had 3 pumps, one for each fuel grade) and I didn't talk to her... OMFG... I was so freakin pissed at myself I kicked myself all the way home and said... ok, from not on I am going to act on every oportunity I have. that also became an affrimation of mine

 

[disciple]

Don't ever leave a pleasant conversation with a woman you just met whom you're attracted to without going for a number or at worst an email address.

If you get rejected, so what?

Just say to yourself over and over these two things:

REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET.

HESITATION LEADS TO MASTERBATION.

 

[Desdinova]

Simple: practice practice practice! After a while, it'll become a habit to get the digits.