"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SO I tell them, Let's Have an ADVENTURE

JimmyZ

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So a couple of days a go,

we're having coffe with a couple of girls... and they start talking about what they are going to do this weekend... and I feel that they don't feel really happy about going clubbin' or any of that stuff.


So I tell that girls to forget about all that... and that we are going on an ADVENTURE....

The minute this happens, they are all looking at me and asking what I had in mind...

Long story short we decide to go to spot that we had never been beofre, got lost on the, had my car run out of gas... had the girls help me push the car.... in the cold....

But the next day almost 50% of the girls called and said what are we doing today....

I mean honestly, I maintained my compusure through out this entire debacle, but I did not expect them to react favourably...

and the weird part is that they all wanted to go on "another adventure..."

Any thought as to WTF happened ?

Jz
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maverick001

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Originally posted by JimmyZ
So a couple of days a go,

we're having coffe with a couple of girls... and they start talking about what they are going to do this weekend... and I feel that they don't feel really happy about going clubbin' or any of that stuff.


So I tell that girls to forget about all that... and that we are going on an ADVENTURE....

The minute this happens, they are all looking at me and asking what I had in mind...

Long story short we decide to go to spot that we had never been beofre, got lost on the, had my car run out of gas... had the girls help me push the car.... in the cold....

But the next day almost 50% of the girls called and said what are we doing today....

I mean honestly, I maintained my compusure through out this entire debacle, but I did not expect them to react favourably...

and the weird part is that they all wanted to go on "another adventure..."

Any thought as to WTF happened ?

Jz
It really was an adventure for those chicas because it was so different from what they usually do.

The key to the whole thing was that you didn`t lose your composure. You rolled with it and so did they. You didn`t get upset and so they didn`t either. This is why they reacted favourably.

Sh!t happened and you dealt with it the right way. Way to go young bro... :up:

There are times when a man should go ballistic but mostly he should keep his cool. You have adopted this approach and it will serve you well.

Keep gaming, DJìng, macking (whatever you want to call it) these chicks but be careful because they might be expecting a real adventure EVERY time they go out with you and so you have to pace the whole thing the way you want. Sometimes chilled out stuff and sometimes b@lls to the wall type stuff.

Keep us posted.

Cheers,
Mav
 

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Re: Re: SO I tell them, Let's Have an ADVENTURE

Oops...double post.
 
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