“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So I started talking to 2 chicks...and I misbehaved

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Here's what happened.
Just regular flirtation as we all like to do.
One is older so obviously less games. But I'm still respectfully pretending to go slow. Just make outs, fun outings, etc.

The other is really just for the selfie likes with pics with me or whatever.

So,
Couple of days back I find out my mom has serious health issues. Normal for this topsy turvy world, but it still affected me more than I was ready for.
So I went out to the club to maybe just take a mental break from my anguish.
Drank too much...got all stuck in my head or feelings as it were.
Drunk called one, drunk texted the other.

The one I texted, the younger one...I just kinda sent her some selfies and texted something vague like...I don't know what to do about you...
I get no response.
Yet I saw her at the school library while I was doing research, and she decided to come up behind me ask look over my shoulder and ask what I was doing.
So the lines of communication are open right? Like, she's giving me a mulligan.
Or like she doesn't want the attention to stop.
How would you guys continue with this one?
She didn't bring up my text, didn't reply.

The older one straight up called me up the next day and called me out on my dyck behavior. Called me a lush, yadda yadda. Yet we have gond out twice since then. Just shopping and make outs, I still drank on our day dates....she didn't freak out.
And we are on cool terms. She's grabbed my rooster and all and texts regularly.
I'm too busy with only about 8 hours of sleep a day to do anything else.

Both showed interest...
How to proceed?
I know my feelings got the better of me that night and I fvcked up.
But now they know my uglier side.

Classic immature drunk guy behavior.
How would you all proceed?
What pros and cons can you see here that I can't?

Honestly. I've been backing away from them cuz silence is golden. I do like them and feel like they were shocked to how I can be.
Bit we all have a dark side.
 
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