"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I started talking to 2 chicks...and I misbehaved

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Here's what happened.
Just regular flirtation as we all like to do.
One is older so obviously less games. But I'm still respectfully pretending to go slow. Just make outs, fun outings, etc.

The other is really just for the selfie likes with pics with me or whatever.

So,
Couple of days back I find out my mom has serious health issues. Normal for this topsy turvy world, but it still affected me more than I was ready for.
So I went out to the club to maybe just take a mental break from my anguish.
Drank too much...got all stuck in my head or feelings as it were.
Drunk called one, drunk texted the other.

The one I texted, the younger one...I just kinda sent her some selfies and texted something vague like...I don't know what to do about you...
I get no response.
Yet I saw her at the school library while I was doing research, and she decided to come up behind me ask look over my shoulder and ask what I was doing.
So the lines of communication are open right? Like, she's giving me a mulligan.
Or like she doesn't want the attention to stop.
How would you guys continue with this one?
She didn't bring up my text, didn't reply.

The older one straight up called me up the next day and called me out on my dyck behavior. Called me a lush, yadda yadda. Yet we have gond out twice since then. Just shopping and make outs, I still drank on our day dates....she didn't freak out.
And we are on cool terms. She's grabbed my rooster and all and texts regularly.
I'm too busy with only about 8 hours of sleep a day to do anything else.

Both showed interest...
How to proceed?
I know my feelings got the better of me that night and I fvcked up.
But now they know my uglier side.

Classic immature drunk guy behavior.
How would you all proceed?
What pros and cons can you see here that I can't?

Honestly. I've been backing away from them cuz silence is golden. I do like them and feel like they were shocked to how I can be.
Bit we all have a dark side.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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