"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So I smashed this b1tch car mirror after she almost killed me

Who Dares Win

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Imagine that you are just walking in your city and that you are crossing the street on the zebra marks, you hear a car approaching from your side when you are already half way and take for granted that its gonna stop....well that was not the case.

She LOOKED AT ME IN MY EYES AND ACCELLERATED forcing me to almost jump on my way back to the side of the street where I was coming from, I could clearly see in her eyes the same attitude of a girl which simply skips the line of the male toilet at the club and goes inside to avoid the mess in the women one and dont even bother to smile to the guys in the queue as if they are not even humans.

After a couple of seconds of shock I see this b1tch stuck at the traffic light, I approach her and tell her angry but calm that she almost killed me...and she looks at me with a pissed off face as if I was a random guy approaching her at the club.

Then I raised my voice and told her that she has to apologize (not because I expect a sincere apology from such creature but just to remind her that her sh1t stinks as well).

She looked me with an even more annoyed and arrogant face and she told me "get lost weirdo"....at that moment was animal anger and I kicked to the ground her side mirror in the middle of people watching us.

At that point was FEAR in her face and she kept apologizing, of course not because she realized she almost killed a man for no reason but because such man made it clear through his behaviour that the following step was her head on the curb.

Then I looked around and all those people checking us LOOKED AWAY even the guy much bigger than me in the following car or women you could tell dont have any problem in arguing with men.

I sprinted away scared from any possible police patrol and got the confirmation that this is not a world for nice guys anymore.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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Partizan said:
Was the girl hot?
Very hot and driving a sport car, thats probably the reason she tought she was above life and death of other people.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win said:
Imagine that you are just walking in your city and that you are crossing the street on the zebra marks, you hear a car approaching from your side when you are already half way and take for granted that its gonna stop....well that was not the case.

She LOOKED AT ME IN MY EYES AND ACCELLERATED forcing me to almost jump on my way back to the side of the street where I was coming from, I could clearly see in her eyes the same attitude of a girl which simply skips the line of the male toilet at the club and goes inside to avoid the mess in the women one and dont even bother to smile to the guys in the queue as if they are not even humans.

After a couple of seconds of shock I see this b1tch stuck at the traffic light, I approach her and tell her angry but calm that she almost killed me...and she looks at me with a pissed off face as if I was a random guy approaching her at the club.

Then I raised my voice and told her that she has to apologize (not because I expect a sincere apology from such creature but just to remind her that her sh1t stinks as well).

She looked me with an even more annoyed and arrogant face and she told me "get lost weirdo"....at that moment was animal anger and I kicked to the ground her side mirror in the middle of people watching us.

At that point was FEAR in her face and she kept apologizing, of course not because she realized she almost killed a man for no reason but because such man made it clear through his behaviour that the following step was her head on the curb.

Then I looked around and all those people checking us LOOKED AWAY even the guy much bigger than me in the following car or women you could tell dont have any problem in arguing with men.

I sprinted away scared from any possible police patrol and got the confirmation that this is not a world for nice guys anymore.
Nice!
 
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Assho|e KICKS my mirror off for no reason!!!! Women keep your man in check!

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Who Dares Win said:
....at that moment was animal anger and I kicked to the ground her side mirror in the middle of people watching us.
where the hell is goundra when you need him? we need his expertise in martial arts to assess your performance.

im sure he would rep you IF:
1. you had charged at her from 10 feet in 1 second,
2.did a kick above yopur head to smash the mirror
3. then pull out your .22 in 0.6 secs to shoot her tires flat.

oh well ill rep you instead :flowers:
 

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You da man! Fvckin cvnt deserved to be put in her place!

"Hulk, SMASH!" :p
 

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Who Dares Win said:
She looked me with an even more annoyed and arrogant face and she told me "get lost weirdo"....at that moment was animal anger and I kicked to the ground her side mirror in the middle of people watching us.

At that point was FEAR in her face and she kept apologizing, of course not because she realized she almost killed a man for no reason but because such man made it clear through his behaviour that the following step was her head on the curb.
And therein lies the lesson of the day. Fear is the only thing that makes women respect men. Incidentally, that is the reason why women are attracted to bad boys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who Dares Win said:
....and I kicked to the ground her side mirror in the middle of people watching us....
What? no white knight fa***ts to the rescue?? I'm surprised!!
 

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what a bltch, if something like that ever happens to me im gonna make sure to leave a huge dent in the side of the door with a spin backkick
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm pretty shocked on the standing ovation you are receiving from this thread. Physical aggression will only reinforce the war against men. Your actions are doing more harm than good, even if it may have put her in the wrong at the moment. You corrected her wrongdoings, but there are many many others that will use your actions against you...against men.

There are other ways you could have handled the situation, OTOH - taking down her license plate and reporting it to her insurance company. Physical damage vs. her intentions will always go against you. Running away as you did will put her justifications in cement.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I sprinted away scared from any possible police patrol and got the confirmation that this is not a world for nice guys anymore.
It was all good until this. Running away from anything shows weakness and the lions will attack. Even if the coppers were on your tail, running away automatically gives them reason to chase.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
I'm pretty shocked on the standing ovation you are receiving from this thread. Physical aggression will only reinforce the war against men. Your actions are doing more harm than good, even if it may have put her in the wrong at the moment. You corrected her wrongdoings, but there are many many others that will use your actions against you...against men.

There are other ways you could have handled the situation, OTOH - taking down her license plate and reporting it to her insurance company. Physical damage vs. her intentions will always go against you. Running away as you did will put her justifications in cement.
You are dead wrong....women need to be put in their places when they act out like this for no reason...if every guy did this they would know not to cross the line of disrespecting someone unless that person actually deserves it. Instead everyone let's them run them over because of their looks and they grow big heads because of it.
 
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You are dead wrong....women need to be put in their places when they act out like this for no reason...if every guy did this they would know not to cross the line of disrespecting someone unless that person actually deserves it. Instead everyone let's them run them over because of their looks and they grow big heads because of it.
Haha, you clearly do not understand the disadvantages of being a man today.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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