"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I ousted my girlfriend tonight

TheCleanPleb

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I called up all my boys and I'm hitting the town tonight, it's been a long time since I've felt this good but I had a little speed bump before hand.

My girl and I sat at home all night yesterday and I wasn't having it today so I basically told her, if she doesn't do what I want to do, she's going to have to leave. Me and a few friends decided to go out tonight and basically, she didn't want to come because she'd have to change and go back to her house(30 mins across the town) EVEN THOUGH I invited her to come with. She's a cancer to my life and I really need to break up with her. She got mad because I was planning a trip to San Francisco and Philadelphia and wouldn't stop what I was doing to hook up her PS2. My girlfriend basically comes over and lays in my bed for hours without doing JACK **** the whole time, it's RIDICULOUS!!!!! She had the nerve to call me out of being on the computer all day today, when I've literally been reading personal improvement articles, planning trips, and linking up with old friends.


I know this isn't my personal blog but I just had to get that off my chest. What's everyone doing on this beautiful Saturday evening?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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skinnyguy

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I'm just glad you didn't call her BPD in this thread.
 

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TheCleanPleb said:
Oh and does anyone have any Florida bootcamps coming up? How much do they usually go for?
Why do you need to go to a boot camp? Your able to get a girlfriend
 

TheCleanPleb

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JaegerPilot217 said:
Why do you need to go to a boot camp? Your able to get a girlfriend
Because I want more out of my dating life. Sure I can get girls but I want to be able to get whoever I want, when I want them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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