"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so I number closed. still feel the rush

slitherjef

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Must mean a sign of improvement getting a number. Of course getting her number is just the first rung off the ladder. Still got to get my foot in the door. Get a date.

This was a biggy for me my only 2nd number close on my own. Feels really good to man up and get the digits
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You're on the path to having millions of numbers. I swear "give me your number!" is an automatic function when talking to women now. It just blurts out all on its own.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, here are the details for those of you who are interested, there is not much, here so you may have to re-read a few of my previous post.

I started to think about getting this cuties number after my last encounter with her. Most of my encounters with her have been pretty good. The last one, I learned she was leaving the store so I figured what the hell, why not attempt to get her number, she is leaving anyway right? Our last encounter, a rubberband fight broke out, which was fun. Today I ran into her while she was on break, today I was determined to attempt a number close, it was just waiting for the right time. While she was reading in the break room, I walked out and said, "break time, eh?" she said yea. As I walked out, I shut the lights out on her, well most of them due to a safty thing. Then turned em back on and walked away onto my business.

A bit later I see her in the back room and say hello and walk by, I cut things short because that other chick I was into was there. I over heard them talking, the hotmom was headed to lunch so I decided I should get to work and do what I intended to do and attempt a number close.

hotmom: Im hungry, im going to take a lunch.
Cutie: okay
hotmom: you feeling any better?
Cutie: yeah, a little bit.

I head to the bathroom and come out and run back into my target, the cutie...

Me: your not feeling well?
Her: yeah, well, I was a bit angry today.
Her: *proceedes to tell my why* The long and short of it was she needed a couple days off from her new store to go get her storage so she can get ready to go to china.
Me: CHINA!? Whats up there?
Her: going to go up there for 5 months to teach english
Me: *thinking this chick is full of surprises* very cool (what a generic ass response LOL). Im also thinking now I have an excuse to hear more... elsewhere besides the back room.
Her: if they don't let me take that time off, I will just quit before I plan on.
Me: yeah.

The conversation stopped there. Through the whole conversation I was looking at her face, in her eyes when I could

A bit later I grab a piece of paper fold it up and shove it in my back pocket. I was going to do this then walk by her department and see her doing something:

Me: what are you making?
Her: oh, Im just putting some tips away. I got to decorate two cakes.
Me: *peaking over the counter* So, your going to have to tell me more about this China stuff
Her: Oh, really? (playfully)
Then we get interupted by some one saying hi to us. When she walks away, I pull the piece of paper out and place it on the counter and said the magic words: "hey, let me get your number, we can go get coffee one of these days"
Her: take the paper, writes her number down, goes to pick it up and then goes back writting a bit more, her first and last name, then hands it back to me.

She tells me she don't drink coffee, but would do hot chocolate
Me: So, are you not old enough to drink coffee?
her: *giggles a bit* Na, im not much of a coffee person. Can you just see me on caffine?
Me: not sure, you ever see me on caffine?
Her: I don't know, have I seen you on caffine?
Me: probably. *starting to make my exit* So, I will give you a call in a couple days
Her: okay

I make my exit, run to get some lunch at chipotle. Get to chipotle tell em what I want and they hook me up with a free meal!! Sweet.

So there you have it. Got her talking about her self said the magic words, "let me get your number" and I have another number close under my belt. About friggin time I grew a set.
 
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