"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I need someone to tell me I'm better than this ****

Moofahsa

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Girl, 20, 2 kids...ran out of state once with her ex and came crawling back to me. I was a dumbass and took her back.

Now I'm out of town and shes back in my area (where her ex is) and I told her I was going to check up on her and see where she was at. Long story short her phone has been off for 5 hours and she was having visitation with her ex (her sister was taking the kid and she wasn't going to be around)

Well now I'm feeling all sick and AFCish about to punch holes in the wall.

What the hell am I supposed to do? Just drop her like a bad habit?

man this pisses me off, i'm like 500 miles away and want to strangle someone
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonJuanNJ81

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Drop this broad immediately, and stay the f away from her. First ofall, she cheated on you once...reason enough to drop her. Secondly, your life depends on her too much at the moment. You need to stop depending on her to make you happy, and just make yourself happy.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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As Don Juan NJ81 said .

Once cheater , always cheater .

By accepting her back u show that ur depended on her , that u need her .

Dump her , continue life .

Just by being in this forum it shows that u have potential to become great on relationship with womens and be very social person .

This will automatically make u forget her and continue ur life ..

BTW , are kids your kids ?
 
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