Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So i must ask when a female hits you with..

christz

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"i can't trust myself around you.."

what the hell does she mean, now i had her explain and basiclly she said she wanted to bang me so bad but didn't wanna cause drama with (dudes name) and had there been drama i woulda dispatched it right away.

she said this in the heat of the moment while her "dude" was spying on us alone on her deck i told her to come close to me, and she did then she stepped away and i was like come here.. she's like no in a playfull way and then she moved farther away out of my arms reach, then i said come here again and pointed in front of me..

she's like no, i can't trust myself around you besides he's stareing at you.. (pointing to the AFC douche bag)

so wtf does that mean... i was makeing HUUUUGE headway then she slams me with that.. how does a DJ handle a situation like this if it ever comes up again!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You must lead it can't be her fault for why you too had sex. Ever heard some PUAs saying "It just happened" well that is how she should feel. Now when you have sex she'll think, "It was his fault because he lead it to sex and now were fuvking so its not my fault."
 

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Distant Light said:
You must lead it can't be her fault for why you too had sex. Ever heard some PUAs saying "It just happened" well that is how she should feel. Now when you have sex she'll think, "It was his fault because he lead it to sex and now were fuvking so its not my fault."

Distant Light hit the nail on the head.

She wants it but you need to take all responsibility.

Do her the favour of taking advantage her.

JJ
 

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Jay Jay said:
Distant Light hit the nail on the head.

She wants it but you need to take all responsibility.

Do her the favour of taking advantage her.

JJ
i have to say that this makes more sense now haveing thought about previous encounters with this girl.. she one time acted in a way that she wanted me to just grab her and make out with here.. i'm talking slam up against the wall type stuff.. espeiclly with these weird looks she gives me like OMG do something now.

so i guess i have no choice but to basiclly "grab" her and make it happen
 
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christz said:
"i can't trust myself around you.."
This means that she wants to have sex!!

So around most men she can restrain her sexual lust - so she "trusts herself" to keep her clothes on - but around you she cannot restrain herself thus she does not trust herself to maintain the state of keepin her clothes on her body!

This is woman-ese. - it is basically an Anti-Hor defense which she tells to all the guys!! :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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